[gentlygifted]

I keep thinking about my ex girl having sex with another guy and thinking about the things we use to do and that she may be doing the samething to another guy. We broke up like only 2 months ago. She denies that she is dating or seeing anyone. But I had a friend tell me he saw her holding hands with another guy like 2 weeks ago, but she denies it.this guy doesn't spend the night though. He comes over somes at night about 2 hours then leaves.me and her use to keep in contact like textes and calling each other. But now since her holding hands incident she maybe textes me like every other 3 days saying she miss me and will always love me. She texted me one night before the guy got o her house. She was saying she missed me and the way I hold her.she knew that guy was on his way. He stayed there for only a hour and half not to mention the house lights was on before he got there.then when he got there it went dark. I tried to respond to her text but she wouldn't answer cause he arrived there. After he left. She wouldn't even answer her phone or text me back. Well I haven't texted or tried to call her since that moment. I just wonder is she filling a void with a rebound relationship,or messing with a married man or someone invovled cause the guy doesn't park in her drive way. He never spends the night. I am just confused and can't stop thinking about the sex details and how she feeling,its really complicated. I need answers. Just confusing. I love her but I don't think I can't take her back even if she wanted to comeback. But just want to know why she playing these games. Then she tells me she will never cheat on me and haven't slept with anyone and she uses gods name in it. Did I fall in love with a lair? I am a attractive guy but just can't get out this funk, don't feel like going out,talking to chicks. Tonight I'm home and she is probably on her back having fun. Anyone that can understand what I am saying help me understand what the outcome will be and how should I play this ****ty hand I'm dealt. Oh footnote. I never cheated on her , I left her and moved back home, so now we have distance as a factor too now. About 14 hours away. Thank you

[StephenHHH]

Dude the same thing happened to me a couple days ago except my ex straight up told me she *****ed him. :(. I know the feeling and was wondering how I could stop thinking about her too.

[Fr_Chuck]

Ok after two months it is not cheating if you or her is seeing someone else, in fact it would be almost expected.

Next stop the contact, why are you asking her or checking up on her.

Stop any and all contact with her, don't look at her Facebook, don't call her, don't text her and start moving on

[StephenHHH]

We want to know how to move on. Its almost impossible when you think about her all day and even dream about her.