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Aleighprettyme1 · Nov 13, 2011, 10:18 AM

Me and my boyfriend have been dating since April of this year, and at first everything was going great. We always had something to talk about, I would get excited just seeing him, but now things aren't exactly perfect anymore.

The 4th of this month there was a football game, my boyfriend was going to the game and before the game he was just going to walk around town with his friends. I knew about this girl who he spends time with at school and stuff. They joke around a lot and text, so you I asked him if she was going to be at the game he said no, and I believed him. I didn't think I was going to the game till later that night when the game had already started. My close friend said he saw my boyfriend with this girl at the game hanging out, so obviously I went to the game crushed and furious that he lied to me about he being at the game. When I got there I decided not to say anthing about because I didn't want to start a scene. During the whole game I realized and other people noticed that he was distant and ignoring me when I would talk to him.

I decided to forget the whole thing because I didn't want to start a fight. A couple days after the game my friend asked me if I was OK with the fact the my boyfriend spends time with this girl when I'm not around, and I said what do you mean? She said that the day of the game she went with him walking around town. I was so mad, I then found out that they hug every morning before I get to school. And that devasteted me. I have always promised him that I wouldn't hug my guy friends and he said he wouldn't hug any of the girls he hangs out with, he clearly doenst keep his promises.

So now things are different between me and him and its not just because of the other girl, I don't feel happy all the time when Im around him, I even dread when he hugs me sometimes. I can't tell if this means we should take a break or if its just a relationship stage I'm going threw. Give me your opinion PLEASE

talaniman · Nov 13, 2011, 10:21 PM

Why haven't you simply talked honestly? Then you would know where you both stand, and what should be done about it.

kevin1070 · Nov 18, 2011, 05:21 PM

Time to be mate with hm I think. Move on

emma1040 · Nov 30, 2011, 05:26 PM

Be honest and talk to him! And bond together again but if it doesn't work then your going to have to move on but if you really do love him tell him and then he might see sense