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    Nov 8, 2011, 09:02 AM
    How do I save myself for marriage?
    Im a muslim male and I have a serious question that I think needs to be answered not just for me but for the sake of all Godly males (muslim, christian,jew). We are taught by our scriptures to live a chaste life and to save ourselves for marriage and this is hard for all us males with our "raging hormones" and such. And our scriptures tell us that we should marry in order to fulfill our desires (alot of times they recommemend marriage and younger ages). But we today are living in a secular western world where people tell us to wait for marriage like after we get jobs and finish school/college. Well in my opinion that's a bunch of bull. I can understand how a girl can agree to such terms cause I know for a fact that they don't crave sex every five to ten minutes of there lives. I have non-muslim parents and they would tell me that I must wait sfter I get a career and finish college before marriage. This is easy for them to say because they were slave to the dating game as they were bf/gf for many years and have recently yotten married like 6yrs ago. What would u all recommend for us men of faith who "need" to release these urges. (masturbations out cause it's a sin in all our scriptures)

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