[toguro808]

Ok so me and a girl I like started hanging out about 3 months ago. We see each other on a daily basis however she has had a boyfriend for around 3 years... She says that she only likes me as a friend however we spend the night at each others house about 2-4 times a week, although we never have sex or kiss, we do cuddle. I really don't know what to do because she says that loves spending time with me and is around almost all the time but we are just friends and it really bothers me because even though she says it her actions don't say the same thing... I really don't know what to do...

[DaniCalifornia]

I assume you really like this girl?

But she has a boyfriend. That's a no-fly zone. Enjoy being friends with her. If you're worried you'll make a move that'll ruin her relationship, then you should lay off, don't see her as much. Maybe tell her properly how you feel, so she can tell you straight, and make it easier on you.

X Dani

[DoulaLC]

I agree with DaniCalifornia... stop having her sleep over, and stop the cuddling. I highly doubt her boyfriend would be too happy about what she is doing. Many would consider it cheating on her boyfriend. She really is sending you mixed messages. Tell her that and see what she says.

By being so close to her, knowing she has a boyfriend, and her already telling you that she only likes you as a friend, you are setting yourself up for more confusion and hurt if you continue to be so close.

She is not putting up the boundaries, so you will have to.

[I wish]

Try reading this thread: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ip-463250.html

She either sees you as a really good friend, she either likes you back or she's leading you on. The question is, do you want to find out you truth and can you handle the truth?