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    Oct 22, 2011, 02:45 PM
    Girlfriend orgasms like every 2 seconds
    Ok were having sex and like every two seconds she orgasms doing the whole tense up which the way she does it pushes me out and I can't pump any more. After like the no lie 30th time in about an hour I got frustrated and lost the "HARD" am I going to have to keep putting up with this or what cause it's great that I get her off. But I'm here too.Any advice?
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    Oct 22, 2011, 02:55 PM
    How old are you both?
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    Oct 22, 2011, 03:28 PM
    I'm 33 she's 21 with not a lot of " experience" I'm the first guy to give her an orgasm. She's had vibrators and girls do it but not a guy
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    Oct 22, 2011, 04:56 PM
    Try positions where you can remain in better. This is really not a bad thing, just one where you have to work with staying in better.
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    Oct 22, 2011, 05:22 PM
    Why do I doubt she's having an orgasm every 2 seconds? She's either (A) faking; (B) getting vaginal spasms.
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    Oct 22, 2011, 06:40 PM
    Is it possible that they are not orgasms but tensing up due to stress? Is it possible she was raped or sexually molested as a child, which causes flashbacks during sex? This is a common problem with PTSD.
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    Oct 23, 2011, 06:17 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    Is it possible that they are not orgasms but tensing up due to stress? is it possible she was raped or sexually molested as a child, which causes flashbacks during sex? this is a common problem with PTSD.

    Absolutely, Jennie, absolutely. It could very well be muscles. You raise a very good point. You and I have both posted about our experiences.

    (Love the photo!)
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    Oct 23, 2011, 10:00 AM
    That was always my reaction when I first started a sexual relationship, is tensing up and pushing away right before or right at climax. (thanks :D )
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    Oct 23, 2011, 11:11 PM
    No she has no PTSD. And she's not faking it either cause I can feel the fluid flowing around my stick when I'm in her. Her muscle tensions are unfortunately in numerous positions still doing the same thing.
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    Oct 23, 2011, 11:53 PM
    Have you tried oral or manual stimulation to get her to orgasm a few times and then have the intercourse, so that you can get your time in while her body is recuperating? Or perhaps get her some toys like a dildo and bullet to stimulate her (or she can her self) a few times before you and her have intercourse. This may help too
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