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  • Oct 22, 2011, 02:45 PM
    MrManiacal
    Girlfriend orgasms like every 2 seconds
    Ok were having sex and like every two seconds she orgasms doing the whole tense up which the way she does it pushes me out and I can't pump any more. After like the no lie 30th time in about an hour I got frustrated and lost the "HARD" am I going to have to keep putting up with this or what cause it's great that I get her off. But I'm here too.Any advice?
  • Oct 22, 2011, 02:55 PM
    JudyKayTee
    How old are you both?
  • Oct 22, 2011, 03:28 PM
    MrManiacal
    I'm 33 she's 21 with not a lot of " experience" I'm the first guy to give her an orgasm. She's had vibrators and girls do it but not a guy
  • Oct 22, 2011, 04:56 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Try positions where you can remain in better. This is really not a bad thing, just one where you have to work with staying in better.
  • Oct 22, 2011, 05:22 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Why do I doubt she's having an orgasm every 2 seconds? She's either (A) faking; (B) getting vaginal spasms.
  • Oct 22, 2011, 06:40 PM
    jenniepepsi
    Is it possible that they are not orgasms but tensing up due to stress? Is it possible she was raped or sexually molested as a child, which causes flashbacks during sex? This is a common problem with PTSD.
  • Oct 23, 2011, 06:17 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    Is it possible that they are not orgasms but tensing up due to stress? is it possible she was raped or sexually molested as a child, which causes flashbacks during sex? this is a common problem with PTSD.


    Absolutely, Jennie, absolutely. It could very well be muscles. You raise a very good point. You and I have both posted about our experiences.

    (Love the photo!)
  • Oct 23, 2011, 10:00 AM
    jenniepepsi
    That was always my reaction when I first started a sexual relationship, is tensing up and pushing away right before or right at climax. (thanks :D )
  • Oct 23, 2011, 11:11 PM
    MrManiacal
    No she has no PTSD. And she's not faking it either cause I can feel the fluid flowing around my stick when I'm in her. Her muscle tensions are unfortunately in numerous positions still doing the same thing.
  • Oct 23, 2011, 11:53 PM
    jenniepepsi
    Have you tried oral or manual stimulation to get her to orgasm a few times and then have the intercourse, so that you can get your time in while her body is recuperating? Or perhaps get her some toys like a dildo and bullet to stimulate her (or she can her self) a few times before you and her have intercourse. This may help too

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