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    Oct 17, 2011, 04:05 AM
    Girlfriend troubles
    My girlfriend of 2 years hates sex and says she feels uncomfortable kissing me, she also won't even cuddle me, she says that she still cares but she sees me more of a friend... What's wrong and what should I do
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    Oct 17, 2011, 01:35 PM
    Respect her position, and maybe you are better friends than partners. This is only a preview of what life will be like with her as a partner, because I doubt she changes. Can you accept that from a girlfriend?

    Do you see this as being something you can accept for another year? If you cannot, you have a tough decision to make, whether you are willing to or not.

    How old are you both?
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    Oct 17, 2011, 01:45 PM
    Both 18 :/
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    Oct 17, 2011, 01:57 PM
    Kind of young and no doubt you have some changes coming that you have to adjust to, because you are both outgrowing that young high school love thang.
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    Oct 17, 2011, 01:59 PM
    I know it sounds pathetic because we are young but it's been so long and I used to be the happiest person on this planet she was amazing, I just don't know what to do
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    Oct 17, 2011, 02:03 PM
    Talk to her honestly, and see if there is a future.Maybe its time you both move on and experience others. It happens that way sometimes as we grow, and learn about life, and reality.

    Sucks I know, as we get used to and become attached to partners we have had for years.
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    Oct 17, 2011, 02:05 PM
    I understand what you mean, well she says she needa time to thonk everything through and everything, I've been told it's a side effect of the pill to so we'll see what happens... Thanks you've been a great help :)
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    Oct 17, 2011, 02:16 PM
    Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.

    Good Luck.
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    Oct 18, 2011, 07:54 PM
    Ah, dude.

    She doesn't hate sex. Just with you now.

    Time to split.

    You both had your fun.

    So be it.

    There's more.

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