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    saulg13 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 4, 2011, 11:09 PM
    Random Erection
    Why do I get erections around men? I'm 20 and straight, but when ever I see a penis I compare it to mine and start getting hard. Why?
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    Oct 5, 2011, 08:13 AM
    Because you find them attractive? It could very well be a subconscious response, you're comparing and thus thinking about intercourse and thus getting hard. It is hard to explain the workings of the subconscious and hind brain.

    Could be some bisexual leanings, who knows. If it isn't bothering you than don't worry about it. It is all natural.
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    Oct 13, 2011, 12:24 PM
    It doesn't have to mean bisexual or gay. There is nothing wrong with either but that does not have to be the meaning.

    At 20 years old, your body is just now starting into its full prowess.
    Sex of ANY KIND will turn you on. Be it an unattractive woman posing in a sexual way, or an attractive man not doing anything sexual at all. Or watching 2 animals have sex. Or seeing the word sex. Or a sexual innuendo.


    The fact is, it is SEX that is turning you on. The idea. The thought, the premise.

    Not necessarily the man himself.

    I can remember a time when queen latifa turned me on. I am female, and now older, and have no sexual feelings towards women. But queen latifa was the epitome of feminine sensuality.

    It is a natural coinsurance. Don't let it bother you. :)
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    Oct 15, 2011, 10:47 PM
    Ahem. Spell check changed occurrence to Coinsurance. I am sorry LOL
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