[vinae]

I was in a relationship with a girl 2 yrs younger than me for 2 months. We had a great thing going on. She proposed me to marry her and I gladly accepted. She is from a different caste and we always feared her parents. We talked about convincing them and she seemed satisfied.

Her elder sister read all the texts sent by me and blurted it out to her mom. Her mom turned very angry and instructed my girlfriend not to talk to me ever. She now says that this isn't going to work anymore.

In spite of trying to convince her a hundred times, she ended our relationship saying that she still loves me. I don't want to lose her, so I am friends with her now. Its has been a week since we broke up and I cry daily. I want her back. She said that her sister checks her in-box daily so it isn't going to be possible to make this work but she texts me now that we are friends.

I am confused whether she really loves me or not as she broke her promise not to leave me ever.

[0rphan]

Hi vinae, sadly I think you are going to have to accept this,she obviously has to listen to her parents on such important issues of marriage and probably many other things depending on her culture.

One advantage although you don't see that now,is that you can still be friends and text each other,where as some families will not even allow this.

You were only together for 2 months which really isn't very long,especially if you were intending to spend your whole future together.

I know right now it really does hurt but give it time and I'm sure you will see that it was for the best.

[talaniman]

She has no choice but to break a promise as she has no authority, her parents do. Sad, but something you both must accept for now.

[vinae]

Thanks for the advice :D