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    Oct 4, 2011, 01:41 PM
    When a sexual partner stares at you?
    What is it called when someone you already had sex with stares at you? This guy I've been dealing with for 1yr 1/2 now whenever we are at our dance class he looks at me.. He does everything he can do to be near me.I'm confused because this same person would never text me first though.He will text me back if I text him and we can go back and forth all day.I'm 10yrs older than he and our intamacy is really really great.Just don't know what he always looks at me.I was talking to him one time during a lunch break and while we were talking this other guy comes by interupts our converstation and starts to converse with me.The whole time this guy and I were talking he kept turning around as if he wanted to either join in our convesration or just say something.My lover than gets up throws away his trash turns to me and the other guy and offers to throw his trash away.I'm confused.

    Can someone kind of help me out here.He's cute young he's 30 and I'm 40 but sometimes I'm not sure if he's just playing these mind games with me.One time I went out to my car and when I got outside he was parked next to me.Maybe I'm reading too much into this but even during sex few times we both I admit just gaze into each other eyes.. Can someone help me please?
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    Oct 6, 2011, 10:43 AM
    He wants more sex, and he wants it given to him, that's why he tries to interject himself when he has a chance. He wants you to notice him so you will give him sex. He doesn't call or text, or communicate, or date or any of that stuff.

    He wants you to chase him, meet his needs, no strings, no promises, no obligations, titles or commitments. The signal he sends to other guys is that he is the guy who gets it, and the one to deal with, and worry about.

    Sorry you thought there was more there than JUST sex. There ain't.
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    Oct 6, 2011, 12:12 PM
    Oh now I'm so crushed really it's just a sex thing.Now I'm going to cry and what do you mean a signal he sends other guys then why not just let me talk to them then.I thought maybe he at least cared it's been well over a yr.. But all about booooty oh no...

    He do text , though I said first he don't but when we do text it's an all day thing.. Infact we can text through out our work shift.There's times I even fell back and didn't even contact him so of coarse he ended up contacting me.I even asked him once if he had any single friends to even hook me up and he said they're all dating or married.
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    Oct 6, 2011, 12:40 PM
    What does he say in his texts? Does he invite you on dates, show you a good time? One would think that the lust has worn off, and you guys actually have fun getting to know each other and defining what you both expect. If all you do is hook up for sex, well then you are using each other for a booty call to feel better or whatever.

    What's the straight story here, so I don't have to be confused, and can have some facts to give good advice with?
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    Oct 6, 2011, 02:08 PM
    Is there anyway I can inbox you or anything? It's a little more complicated than that.
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    Oct 6, 2011, 02:11 PM
    I'm in love.. now I'm crying
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    Oct 6, 2011, 02:31 PM
    So when I always catch him starring at mean that's just a sign that we are sex partners?

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