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ryn_stull · Sep 29, 2011, 05:32 AM

My girlfriend and I been dating since aug 19.every time we had sex we I never wore a condom.and every time she comes over to my house she always ask for ice cream like the pop sickles.and my girlfriend today said she had an headache,
And she been having a cold and she been coughing a lot.
And lately she been going to the bathroom a little bit more then usual.and when we did it last week she bleed on me when she first started her period.and she been telling me that her sides and her stomach been hurting her.and she hasn't taken a pregancy test yet,so I don't know if my girlfriend is pregnant or not or maybe starting so I don't know.

Cat1864 · Sep 29, 2011, 06:23 AM

May I ask how old you both are and if she is on any form of birth control?

ryn_stull · Sep 30, 2011, 02:09 AM

I am 23 she is 21,and no she is not.

ryn_stull · Sep 30, 2011, 02:23 AM

She has told me she had headaches,and she been sleeping quite a bit more.and she been going to the bathroom quite a bit more.she always wanting ice cream when she comes to my house.she tells me her sides hurt and her stomach.and she started her last period about a week or so ago.and bleed on while we were having sex.so I don't know if she is or not if you can help me out that be nice please and thank you.

J_9 · Sep 30, 2011, 03:09 AM

If she were pregnant it would be too early for her to experience any of the symptoms you are describing as she only had her period a week ago or so ago.

There is nothing you can do at this point but to wait until her next period is due and have her take a home pregnancy test using first morning urine.

ScottGem · Sep 30, 2011, 03:15 AM

Are you trying to have a child? If not, then why are you having unprotected sex?

ryn_stull · Oct 12, 2011, 01:50 AM

We talk about having one.we always has unprotected sex.

Her period is coming up soon.

ryn_stull · Oct 15, 2011, 10:38 AM

When I wrap my arm around her stomach it feels her stomach is getting little bigger while she standing up and sitting down.

ryn_stull · Oct 19, 2011, 09:22 PM

How many weeks and how months can it take for a woman to get pregnant? And how do you know when a woman missed there period? And how do you know when she starting to show? Her and I been together for 2 months now.

J_9 · Oct 19, 2011, 09:27 PM

You've only been together 2 months and you are trying to have a child together? Wow, talk about rushing things! This relationship is still too young to be considering bringing an innocent life into the world.

It can take as long as a year of actively trying before a woman conceives. So don't rush it.

How do you know when she misses her period? She doesn't bleed.

How do you know when she is starting to show? You will see her belly growing. A woman usually shows around the 20th week of pregnancy if it's her first one.

ryn_stull · Oct 19, 2011, 09:55 PM

Thank you for your help welp it's to early to tell then it's been 8 weeks.if it happen that we bring a child into a life its happens I am not rushing it am just curious so I know.I never knew that.that why I was asking.
She is really thin/skinny.and when I put my hand on her stomach last night her stomach felt bigger IDK though this is all new to me.
Yea this well be her first one.

Cat1864 · Oct 20, 2011, 05:19 AM

Ryn, please don't take this the wrong way, but was she a virgin the first time you had sex and who is wanting a child this early in the relationship?

I think you need to stop having sex with her until you know each other better. I am beginning to get the impression that IF she is pregnant, you may not be the father.

Please take precautions. Slow down and learn who each other is an individual before you are tied for life to someone who isn't who you thought she was.

Jake2008 · Oct 20, 2011, 08:07 AM

Ryn, you seem so casual about the possibility your girlfriend could be pregnant, and so casual about having frequent, unprotected sex.

You really need to start thinking here. Bringing a baby into this world, is not a matter of trivial consideration, or no consideration at all. It is not like deciding which movie to see on a Friday night; it is playing russian roulette, with the highest stakes available, and if you lose (her being pregnant), you will pay for this gamble, for the rest of your life.

And so will the child, who was not born into this world of any plan, or loving relationship, or marriage- do a little research on what it takes to raise a healthy baby, right down to the dollars and cents.

It is MUCH cheaper to buy a box of condoms.

Unless you are prepared to work two or more jobs to support this (possible) baby, and the baby's mother, stop having casual sex. And stop having sex until you realize the consequences that will eventually happen if you don't smarten up.