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    Sep 21, 2011, 12:26 PM
    I am a lonely kid who wants 2 adopt me?
    I am a lonely kid who has parents bt nt loved at all... My mum loves me a lot bt I don't gt any freedom when m with dad and he always brawl with me... I am frm Africa Tanzania bt I'm an arabian and I'm studying in year 11... I always would want I welcoming home... ALLY
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    Sep 21, 2011, 12:34 PM
    Isn't year 11 nearly an adult?

    I'm sorry, but people looking to adopt generally want to adopt an infant or a very small child.

    You need to work with your family to make your family life better, rather than hoping for rescue from someone else. Can you talk to a teacher about getting your family some counseling?

    Your mother would be broken-hearted if you left her to live with some other family and call someone else "mom".
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    Sep 21, 2011, 12:38 PM
    It does not work like that. First your parents would have to want to put you up for adoption. Then another family has to want to adopt. Unless it is from your own nation, there is international laws that have to be followed.
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    Oct 14, 2011, 08:58 AM
    Hello P.Ally.

    I am sure many people would be proud to have you as their son,but it is not as simple as that,and you have a Mum that really loves you.

    Ok you fight with your Dad lots of lads do.I'm sure he really does love you, just does not show it.

    I think you should speak to your Mum, tell her everything,how you feel about your Dad,how you feel unloved and want to live somewhere that will welcome you.

    Your Mum loves you and will not want to see you unhappy,she will be sad that you would rather live somewhere else because of your Dad.

    Tell her that you love her but your Dad is making you feel miserable all the time and that you need her help to sort this out,because you are always very sad.

    I am sure when you tell your Mum how you feel, she will do her very best to sort this problem with your Dad out ,so you can be happy again.

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