[Cbrinkm]

Me and my ex broke up a month ago. I am still in love with him and want to be with him. I have tried to get him back but all he says is that he needs space. I am trying to give it to him but it is so hard to. How do I get him back in my life? And do I even have a chance after I ended it?:(

[talaniman]

That's any ones guess. I suggest you move on and leave him alone. Why did you break up with him?

[shygrneyzs]

Yes, give him his space for crying out loud. The best way to chase him off forever and ever is to not give him his space. Just keep after him, keep pleading, keep begging, and you will never see him again.

Give the guy some time to recuperate from the relationship. You broke it off and now you are sorry? Well you may not get a second chance. You may be forgiven, maybe, but your ex boyfriend is not going to forget that.

I suggest you get on with your own life and leave him to his own life. If the two of you ever meet in the middle of the road again... who knows.

[Skell]

You can't win an ex back. You left him and he has been hurt by you and probably has lost trust in you.

And without trust there is nothing.

I think you have to leave it be and move on with your life. If he decides he wants something with you in the future than he will make that decision and then you can decide whether it is worth pursuing. There was obviously something wrong to break up with him the first time so you have to question whether it would work this time anyway!

You can't force someone to be with you. They have to want to.

So move on with your life and don't wait around for anyone. Because more than likely they isn't ever coming back!

[confused and worried]

I know it is hard but give him his space don't contact him in anyway if he wants to talk to you he will call but if not don't sweat it. Move on with your life, try dating again. Maybe if he sees you with someone else he will want you back. Right now he is hurt and needs time to heal if you guys are meant to be you will eventually get back together but don't force the issue and don't put your life on hold hoping he will come back soon. Let nature take its course and go with the flow, it may be a wild ride but hold on because it will be worth it in the end. And make sure you learn from the mistakes you made this time so that next time you can be better prepared. Good luck.