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    Aug 10, 2011, 08:30 AM
    Should I be concerned?
    My boyfriend and I have been long distance, planning to move together. Recently we both had personal issues that have been stressful. However, he has been distant and calling less so I said lets just talk tonight then and end this on good terms. Since that note, I have not heard from him. I have stressed we are still together as far as I know neither of us broke up with the other, I asked to give me something. Text if needed if we are over. Nothing. Finally I said, at least tell me you are alive. And I get text home, fine, sleeping, geez! That's it. NOTHING about our plans together... or breaking up. What do I do? What do I think? We are to be moving together in a couple of months
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    Aug 10, 2011, 03:29 PM

    so I said lets just talk tonight then and end this on good terms.
    Maybe he decided to end this on his terms. Who can blame him since your idea of a solution was to "talk and end things on good terms".

    I think you back up, and not worry about what happens a few months from now, but deal with the now. Maybe he will be in a better mood to talk in a few days after the dust has settled, maybe you both will.

    This might have been avoided just giving the guy some space any way, so give it to him now.
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