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    Aug 6, 2011, 10:22 PM
    Fixing my relationship with my friend?
    Okay a few weeks ago my friend accused me off making up a fake person and messing with her, but I didn't though, and I told her I didn't, but she thought I was lying. I finally got her to believe that I didn't. Then a few days ago, she posted my number on Facebook. The only thing is I never gave her my number, but she message me on there telling me that I lied, and I did make that fake guys profile, and that it was me that was messing with her.

    I didn't do anything, I never texted her anything. I've told her many times, but now she just doesn't believe me, and it makes me mad that whoever it was, got my number from FB, and like found a way to use it to text her with that number. So that if someone found it it would be on me so I'm screwed in this position I'm in. I want to convince her it wasn't me but I don't know how, because she is like really mad at me right now??

    I want to make our friendship better but how I need help?


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    Aug 7, 2011, 01:47 PM

    The only way out of this is to find out who is sabatoging you, possibly someone who considers you a rival, or someone that considers her a rival. Its usually someone close to one or both. So its not relationship advice you need, but technical assistance, so you can protect yourself, otherwise she will never believe you without proof. Hmmm!!

    To bad she is mad and you can't compare notes to get to the bottom of this, but I have to tell you, back off and let her pay the cost of not believing you. That means leaving her alone, and figuring out how someone used YOUR number to send a text.

    Its no trick at all to text online and use your number as a call back.
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    Aug 7, 2011, 04:04 PM
    Yes that's true I need to find out who it is but its hard because I don't know anyone who could have done it that's why I'm stuck and whoever did it isn't going to say nothing but that's what I'm doing I'm just leaving her alone and what happens happens I guess and yes I'm trying to figure that out is how they did but I think that's how they did it was online and using my number
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    Aug 7, 2011, 04:39 PM

    Change your number, and watch who you give it to.
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    Aug 7, 2011, 06:55 PM
    I want to change it but I can't though my mom won't let me change it
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    Aug 8, 2011, 12:12 PM

    Then I don't see a lot of choices other than your friend blocking your number, but that would be here choice, not yours. She seems to have chosen her course of action.

    I hope you get to the bottom of this.

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