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mame_chula123 · Jul 28, 2011, 07:00 PM

Hi, urh I need help.. Im dating this guy and I don't know if I should break up with him? I do like him so much but my parents don't let me date until I'm 15... and I tell everythig to my cuzins and apparently there telling there moms and there moms tell my mom. Now my dad is going to check on everything I did on the computer.. and my boyfriend and I dated once and we broke up because I wasent aloud to date and like I like him so much I told him I can date, and that was when we began to date? What should I do break up with him or stay with him PLEASE I NEED HELP!!

Alty · Jul 28, 2011, 07:04 PM

If your parents won't allow you to date, then you tell your boyfriend that you have to break up with him because you're not allowed to date.

It's that simple.

If he can't respect that, then he really doesn't care about you.

How old are you? I'm guessing that you're very young, probably 11 or younger. I'm only basing that on your post, and the spelling errors.

mame_chula123 · Jul 28, 2011, 07:11 PM

Yea I'm 14

Mrs.Monster · Jul 29, 2011, 12:10 PM

OK is I'm a 15 year old girl. Who still can't date. Now here's what I do, you STILL date BUT you don't tell anyone but your friends at schoolit really does work but you have to make sure not to do anything to bad. Now if your under 12 I don't think you should be dating in the first place. Just Be Careful and good luck :)

Homegirl 50 · Jul 29, 2011, 01:52 PM

You leave this boy alone. You have plenty of time to date and it will be better when you have the permission of your parents.
You start lying to them, they will no longer trust you.
Sneaking around is not cool and it is a very immature thing to do.

joygregson13 · Jul 29, 2011, 03:54 PM

If you like him so much , then stay with him, but you need to tell him what your parents think so that he doesn't do or say anything they wouldn't want him to , whilst there around or on the computer, make sure you don't let your parents find out, and things should go fine

BK201 · Jul 29, 2011, 04:09 PM

Im sure your parents have done so much for you until now. And I'm sure nobody loves you more than how much they do. And its not like they are going to prevent you from dating forever. At this time, it is best to listen to them, because they know when is the right age to not to interfere into your dating and relationships. Again, you can save all the dating complications for later. Please talk to your dad about what's running in your mind.

Mrs.Monster · Jul 29, 2011, 09:09 PM

Ok maybe I was wrong in what I said just listen to your parents they know what's right for you. Im sorry for the wrong advice I guess it seemed right at the moment sorry :/... you can date and have fun when your older right now is the time you should be cracking down on those books :) hope this is better advice then ^

BK201 · Jul 30, 2011, 02:34 AM

Like it or not, we are giving our opinions. If you wanted to hear something which you like to hear, you should not have put such a question in open forum. Good luck

Homegirl 50 · Jul 30, 2011, 06:39 AM

You may not like what you hear, but what I said was not wrong. Lying to your parents so you can do something they don't want you to do is not right and it is a very reckless and immature thing to do

Alty · Jul 30, 2011, 10:03 AM

Time to read the rules.

Unhelpful ratings are for factually incorrect information only, not for opinion.

The only ones deserving of an unhelpful rating were those posters that told you to lie to your parents, go behind their backs, and date anyway. That advice is not correct.

Read the rules you agreed to when you joined this site. I know you don't like rules, that's obvious, seeing as you're trying to find a way to circumvent your parents rules, but on this site, you follow the rules, or you're gone.

Any further breaking of the rules will be reported and dealt with by the mods. Now you know the rules, so follow them.

mame_chula123 · Jul 30, 2011, 03:58 PM

Yea... true

mame_chula123 · Jul 30, 2011, 03:59 PM

I didn't read the rules?

Alty · Jul 30, 2011, 07:16 PM

I didn't read the rules?

It would seem that you didn't, or you read them and either didn't understand them, or chose to ignore them.

You've given unhelpful ratings to quite a few posts on this thread that aren't deserving of that rating.

If you need help understanding the rules, just ask. We're more then happy to help. That's why we're here after all.

mame_chula123 · Jul 31, 2011, 04:45 PM

Ha I ignored it.. and maybe I hvive unhelpful things but those are my opinions... You do help people by giving out your opinions and that's what I've done. :p

Alty · Jul 31, 2011, 05:06 PM

ha I ignored it.. and maybe I hvive unhelpful things but those are my opinions... You do help people by giving out your opinions and that's what I've done. :p

Yes, that is your opinion, but giving a negative unhelpful rating for someone else's opinion is against the rules of this site. You may think you're above the rules at home, but here we enforce the rules. You don't get to choose whether to follow them.

If you don't like someone's opinion, then quote their post, and write your own post expressing why you don't agree, but do not give an unhelpful rating for opinion. Now that you know the rules, you're expected to follow them. Any more deviations from the rules will be reported to the mods of this site.

This is not open to debate.

mame_chula123 · Jul 31, 2011, 05:59 PM

OK what negative opinion have I give?

Alty · Jul 31, 2011, 06:37 PM

OK what negative opinion have I give?

Homegirl's post #5:

mame_chula123 does not find this helpful : I don't like it and I'm 14 :p

BK201's post #7:

mame_chula123 does not find this helpful : I don't like it

You rated both of these posts with an unhelpful rating, even though both posts were factually correct, and opinion.

Now do you understand?

JudyKayTee · Aug 1, 2011, 08:00 AM

Originally Posted by Mrs.Monster

ok is im a 15 year old girl. who stil can't date. Now heres what i do, you STILL date BUT you dont tell anyone but your friends at schoolit really does work but you have to make sure not to do anything to bad. Now if your under 12 i dont think you should be dating in the first place. Just Be Careful and good luck :)

Why is someone who is not allowed to date giving advice all over the teen/dating/relationship boards? Makes no sense to me - it's all guesswork.

And defying parents? Never a good idea.

mame_chula123 · Aug 1, 2011, 03:59 PM

Yes I know there correct but I just wanted another answer BUT YOUR I Didn't LIKE :p