[DIU]

I am girl and I had done friendship with 1 guy because I was liking him. He comes near my neighbor's home once/twice in a month. Once he had came for his cousins sister's marriage for 8 days residence. In those days suddenly he met me on my building's grand floor. I talked with him and he accepted me as a friend.

Next day in the marriage we smiled with each other. I got so excited to talk with him, but it was not possible to talk with him on the location, because I was with my family. I had gone to drink water, suddenly the child came there and I sent his relative's 11 year child to call him for meeting in alone out of entrance hall, but he didn't came and got angry. After 1 day I asked about his anger. He told ''why you told hitesh(child)? I replied ''he knows you, na?''. He said ''I don't want to talk with you''.

I got him to remember his yes for friendship. He again got angry and told me for not come to talk with him again. He was my first liking and I had no knowledge how to behave with him. After 2 months he came to meet my neighbor's. I had gone to take washed cloths in balcony. He saw me and stood in neighbor's balcony seeing me and wanted to attract my eyes on him. I'm not responded. I think he is a nice guy, but we don't know each other well because of distance. I don't want to talk with him now, but I want him to be my life partner in future.

First I want to stand on my feet as a responsible person. Am I taking right decision? *** give me suggestions.



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[amicon]

I suggerst you do the ''standing on your feet as a responsible person'' thing and leave this behind-you don't know him and he doesn't sound like s nice ''friend'' at all.

Why waste time thinking about someone you aren't likely to get to know?

[talaniman]

Cultural differences aside, since this is your first "like", then don't see him as a life partner until you have learned to be a friend. I mean that didn't make him happy, so focus on the standing on your own two feet, and see what other friends you meet along the way.

Then you will better know what to do when you meet a guy, and what NOT to do. Takes a lot of liking to make a life partner, and he has to like you too. Talk to your mother, or big sister about this matter.