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    Jul 19, 2011, 10:13 PM
    My girlfriend says she loves me but she is unsure if she is in love with me...
    Hello. My girlfriend of a year just broke up with me citing she needs to get her life together and nerds space and she isn't sure that she is in love with me anymore. She told me that she does love me. I have also stated that she doesn't see a future with me and she replied " I never said that I didnt". She is in class full time and works but seems to be able to make time for her friends. She has pulled this once before but after a few days of not talking, she comes right back saying " I love you and I've always wanted you". This time its been 2 weeks and her mind seems made up. We might txt once a day now and that's it. I really miss her and want her back. Someone please advise!
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    Jul 19, 2011, 11:37 PM

    Sorry,but she's not into you anymore-this is a break up and you need to leave her alone and get back to living your own life again.

    All break ups hurt-but we all get over them, with time

    Go no contact-no texts, no calls etc and start healing.
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    Jul 20, 2011, 12:15 PM

    Accept her feelings have changed, and she rather be doing other things besides being with you. Start doing your own thing and have fun without her. Break ups happen, and it always sucks, but its hardly the end of the world.

    Sorry for your loss.
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    Aug 13, 2011, 09:54 PM
    If you love her then fight for her. She needs to make up her mind and needs to choose you or not. Call her and see how things are going. You need to keep trying to talk to her, you're the guy. Chase her. Help me: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/am-annoying-him-he-really-into-me-592634.html

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