[imstuckonhim]

I was involved in a crazy hott 4 month relationship with a guy I've known for about 2 years.. he started telling me he loved me, it freaked me out, and I asked him to slow things down, to get my head on straight. I needed to figure out if I was ready for that type of commitment.. now, here I am, 4 weeks later.. head over heals in love with this guy and he tells me " you were right, we really need to think about things..." which I interpret to " i've met someone else.."
My question here is that, in the past I would just delete him from my life and move on. But I miss him like crazy, can't stop thinking about him, and I think he's playing the stupid game with me.. Im scared to delete him, because I feel if I pull totally back, he'll just keep driftin away... what do I do?

[talaniman]

Get yourself under control, and if you can't talk like mature adults, forget it.

4 weeks is a long time to wrap your head around anything.Whose playing a game? I think you are.

[redrumx3]

If you push yourself on him he will continue to know that you're not going anywhere and that he's not losing anything. The best thing you can do if he's questioning things is to give him space. If he drifts away, then he wasn't going to be there anyway. But he won't realize what he's giving up if you don't go anywhere.