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    Jul 2, 2011, 10:22 AM
    Fiancé says she loves me but doesn't know if she's in love with me
    Here's the story. We've been together for two and a half years, she lived in NH when we first met and it was long-distance for three months. She moved down here and we got an apartment together, now she's moved back to NH for work and we'd planned for me to move up there with her after the apartment that she's working on is finished. Today she told me that she's not sure if she's in love with me anymore. She says that things have changed since we first started dating and that I'm not as fun and laid back anymore. She said that she doesn't want to break my heart but my heart's already broken. I'm in love with her and I thought things were going bumpy (long-distance) but we'd get through it. I'm not sure what I should do, where I stand, and what she wants from me.
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    Jul 2, 2011, 12:06 PM

    She's breaking up with you-sorry but her feelings changed.

    Accept that it's over and get your life back on track.
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    Jul 2, 2011, 04:21 PM

    She dumped you, and you should accept it, and leave her alone, that's what you should do.

    Sorry for your loss.
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    Jul 4, 2011, 08:27 PM
    "She said that she doesn't want to break my heart"

    Then don't let her.

    Here's how:

    Go NC now, that means never, ever talking to her again.

    No emails, Facebook, texts, voicemails.

    Remove yourself from her. You will thank yourself later, Believe me.

    And yes, you're dumped. Sorry man.

    Join the crew & never beg, or grub for love.

    Being the invisible man rocks.

    She's your ex. Treat her that way.

    With nothing.


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