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    Jun 29, 2011, 12:22 AM
    I cheated on my girlfreind and don't know what to do? Help
    I've been with her two years and love her so much its unimaginable... I can't put it in words... a few years back she cheated on me and I forgive her but I know hatif I tell her shell leave me... because through our relationship our thing has always been promises... and I promised her I would never do that to her even though she did because she thought since she did I will... this was an accident I was extremmely drunk and after it was done I couldn't believe what just happened... if I tell her shell walk away from me and all our plans will be out the window... HELP!
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    Jun 29, 2011, 05:22 AM

    I don't think there is any such thing as ''accidental cheating''.

    It's up to you,obviously whether you tell her or not-it seems trust is lacking in your relationship-as is communication.

    When you lack trust and can't communicate you don't have much of a relationship.
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    Jun 29, 2011, 07:08 AM
    I am a woman and I'm telling you, forget it ever happened, you were drunk on a mind altering substance that does change your personality, if you tell her, she will be devastated don't do that to her, I wouldn't respect my partner if he told me he cheated, id rather not know, you say you love her and I believe you, if you love her don't tell her and don't do it again.
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