[marley07]

I have a boyfriend who is nearly 13 years older than me but that's not the problem. We rarley see each other and he works all the time. I came back from a 10 holiday a week ago now and we still haven't seen each other, just spoken to each other. Does he want me.

[Wondergirl]

How did he sound when the two of you talked?

He may wonder the same thing about you. How far apart do you live?

[marley07]

Well we only messaged each other, the same as always really but he seemed fine. We don't live that far away but he's been busy latley

[Wondergirl]

I'm thinking he's fine and just very busy. Don't doubt him.

When will you see him again?

[Alty]

We can't tell you what he feels.

If he didn't care about you he'd break up with you. If he's still with you then he obviously wants to be.

Sounds like he's just busy. Sadly that happens. I've been married for 16 years, with my husband for 21 years. We work opposite shifts, which means we see each other 2 days a week. Thing is, we know we love each other. We don't have to see each other every day to know that. If you don't know that, then there's obviously something that you're missing, or he's not fulfilling in you.

Talk to him about it.

[talaniman]

Seems to me the first thing would be for you both to make time for each other. And I can't believe neither of you has talked about when you would get together.

Somebody's priorities are screwed up, or this is a failure to communicate.

[amicon]

You need to talk to each other and make time for each other-busy is one thing-unavailable is another.