[anamansari]

Sir when I was 16 I come in contact with a boy and got physically attached with him but when I
Understand it is wrong I have done done nikah and no one knows except two friend and one maulvi
And then I again I was physically attached with him,I have done nikah on phone but from few
Months I am not doing because in my mind it is coming that it is wrong you give me suggestion is our relating is true in front of god? if not how it can become true and we are ready not to get physically attached till our parents do marriage.

[J_9]

I don't understand, could you tell me what nikah is? We don't have that word in my culture.

Do you mean you had sex with him?

[talaniman]

Nikah - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Have you informed your parents of your intentions? My understanding of your culture requires you to abstain from sex until marriage, so you do have to finalize the contract.

I sure wouldn't tell anyone else that you have been physical with each other already though, unless you have been living together already. I am not Muslim, but I would hate for problems to arise by you jumping the gun, so to speak.

Do your parents even know the guy?

[anamansari]

I have marriage and no sex.we have not done sex.

[anamansari]

You

[talaniman]

Thank you for your reply, it seems you have to talk to both of your parents, and let them know. I hope they agree with your choice.