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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:22 AM
    I lied to my boyfriend about my age, now I've fallen in love with him, what do I do?
    I lied to my boyfriend about my age, now I've fallen in love with him, what should I do?
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:28 AM

    1) What's your age?

    2) What's his age?

    3) Does he love you?
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:30 AM
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    Yes
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:32 AM

    How old does he think you are?
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:34 AM
    17 :/
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:38 AM

    Will he be mad you lied? Why will he be mad, if he is?

    What gain did you get by lying and making yourself sound older?
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:40 AM
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    Ye I think so :/
    Because I lied to him about my age.
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:41 AM

    WHY did you lie?
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:43 AM
    Because I thought that maybe if I said I was a bit older he would like me more
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:47 AM

    There's only a year between your real age and the age you told him. Were you under 16 when you lied to him?
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:48 AM
    No I wasn't I was 16, I turn 17 in 4 months.
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:50 AM

    If you were already 16 when you lied, I don't see any big deal. (You weren't underage or a "baby.") It's better to confess now than to keep him in the dark.

    What will happen, do you think, when you confess?
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    Jun 7, 2011, 11:54 AM
    Well I'm really scared about confessing because his mum id to do with the law, an when I told him I was 17 I didn't know his mum :/
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    Jul 27, 2011, 03:35 PM
    I'm in the same position. I love a guy who is 16, and I told him that I was 15, but I'm actually 14. I'm really scared of telling him, but.. If he doesn't want to be with me, I'll at least know if he was meant for me or not. If he breaks up with me he doesn't love me enough, cause age doesn't really matter. So I'm going to tell him as soon as I get the chance.
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    Aug 5, 2011, 07:39 PM
    Maybe its difrent but I'm 11 and I told my boyfriend I was 13 and he is turning 14 4 months and I told him the truth today.he didn't dump me he just asked me why did you lie to me and it was as simple as saying because I taught you wouldn't like me. His answer:if you know I really like you then you know that age is just a number there is no age in love if he really likes you he won't care if he doesn't like you then well yea he will breakup with you but be glad. :D

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