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    Oct 3, 2008, 03:57 PM
    Fallen in love
    I really can't go into detail but lets just say its one of those "forbidden loves" and besides he's my best friend and now I feel awkward around him and around all mutual friends because they all know I still love him
    I went into another relationship but he noticed that I still luved him so he asked me to nvr speak to him again so I broke it off... he came back to me and told me he'd let it go but we can't seem to make it work. We've been going on and off ever since what do you think I should do
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    Oct 3, 2008, 06:18 PM

    Get busy with life. Accept the fact that the two of you will probably never be an item. Continue to be a good friend to him if you can. And most important, don't tell the people around you your thoughts about him.

    If good things are going to happen, they will. But be busy with your own interests and not maudlin about him.
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    Oct 3, 2008, 07:30 PM

    Is it still FORBIDDEN aka ilicit if ever?

    Then forget it.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 06:39 AM

    Must be forbidden for a reason so leave it alone. What's the big mystery?
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    Oct 4, 2008, 06:42 AM

    Its not 'forbidden love' its 'luv that was meant for someone else' if he wants to be friends then leave it at that. Everything happens for a reason, every decision is a new step that leads to a new future. Just enjoy life as is.. Prince charming will come :)
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    Oct 4, 2008, 06:50 AM

    Ok, lets be straight, if you are not clear with us, we can not properly help you. There has been listed on here every type of relationship there is.

    But there is only one real way to get over a relationship, don't have any contact with that person, and start doing things to meet and see other people.
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    Oct 5, 2008, 02:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Must be forbidden for a reason so leave it alone. Whats the big mystery?
    Well its no big mystry I was just in no mood to talk any further we're both of different religions n both of our religions forbid us from being together
    The thing is he told me he still loves me but he can't stand us being together any longer because then it'd hurt more to leave
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    Oct 5, 2008, 03:08 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by 2L2 View Post
    the thing is he told me he still loves me but he can't stand us being together any longer because then it'd hurt more to leave
    Quote Originally Posted by 2L2 View Post
    he came back to me n told me he'd let it go but we can't seem to make it work. we've been going on n off ever since wat do ya think i should do
    MY ADVICE:Dont make things hard for you. He already made his decision so no need to confuse yourself. His/Your feelings won't matter anymore.

    WHAT TO DO? Move on and find something not "forbidden".

    HOW? Dont talk to him anymore. There will be times you wil be tempted but this is the only way for you to get over him.
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    Oct 5, 2008, 05:14 AM
    the thing is he told me he still loves me but he can't stand us being together any longer because then it'd hurt more to leave
    Stop all contact with him, as he has made his choice, and doesn't love you enough to go against what he believes in. You obviously are ready to do that.

    That's why you must respect his wish, and heal yourself for someone who puts you first against anything.

    We humans are amazing for our capacity to heal, move on, and finding a better love that makes us happy.

    Just curious, as to why one of you cannot convert to the others religion, and what your religions are??

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