[tryingtomoveon]

I was dating this guy for three years and things were happy and normal and one day about a month ago he started to get distance from me. I thought he was just been moody, but then he stop answering my phone. I got worried and I went crazy and kept on calling him. He picked up his phone and told me that its over. I ask him why and he said that he can't tell me because its too painful. I was so confused and hurt. I found out later on that he thinks that I had a boyfriend before him and didn't tell him about it. He even contacted this family friend of mine on fb and accuse him of been my former boyfriend. I don't know what wrong with him. He refuse to talk to me and listen to me. I love him so much. I send him an e-mail to explain him and after that I stop all the contact with him. What should I do? I love him so much... Why won't he listen to me and talk to me?

[JudyKayTee]

No one knows why he has this problem - except for him, and he obviously doesn't want to talk to you about it.

I'd leave him alone and see if he contacts you. I know it hurts but something major must have happened to make him doubt you.

[amicon]

He broke up with you,now he won't communicate with you;the sooner you realise that,whatever his reasons,this is over,the sooner you can start moving on and get your life back on track.

All break ups are painful in one way or another-you will get over him though,with time.

[havefun]

Well OK that has happened to me before too.. dont feel the need to answer this but did you have a boyfriend like he thought? If not then try to explain it to him if he doesn't listen then try to move on. Can I ask you a question? Well here it is but don't feel the need to answer it. Were you guys friends before you dated? Also try leaving him alone if you do maybe he will feel a little more comfortable to talk to you about it he might not be talking to you about it cause maybe it is to soon for him to talk about it it could put him in tears talking about it too soon wait until he is ready