[scorpio1985]

Some people think just cause u are married and have kids that your sex life should slow down. What do u think?

[Synnen]

You must be young.

When you are married and have kids, your sex life slows down because LIFE happens. Hard to be in the mood for sex when you're up all night with a sick kid, or you've spent your whole day running errands involving kids (or just working!) and then come home, make dinner, help with homework, do the dishes, get some laundry done, and put the kids to bed--where in there do you see TIME for sex?

Strong marriages make time, of course.

But anyone that thinks that having a life together with children isn't going to slow your sex life down (at least--more than it was BEFORE kids) either has unrealistic dreams or has no idea how hard it is to be in the mood and switch to "sexy hot wife" after being "run-down, stressed mom" all day.

[talaniman]

Sex/lust has to slowdown enough to tend to the more important areas of the marriage/relationship.

Plus, it's the QUALITY, not the quantity that's important.

[excon]

some people think just cause u are married and have kids that your sex life should slow down. what do u think?

Hello scorpio:

I don't think that. I'm old and as horny as ever.

excon

[Synnen]

Yes, but excon darling--

If your spouse was UNABLE to have sex for, say, a medical reason---would you bail on the marriage?

Sex is important in a marriage--no one is denying that. But a GOOD marriage can make it without sex if needed.

[excon]

If your spouse was UNABLE to have sex for, say, a medical reason---would you bail on the marriage?

Hello Darling, Synn:

My spouse has 5, count 'em 5 body parts that can satisfy a man. If she can't move 4 of 'em, that still leaves one. And, if that one failed, I'd pleasure myself using the pictures I have of her in my mind.

excon