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ibizachick · May 5, 2011, 12:07 AM

I met my boyfriend while I was on holiday with friends, and we were inseparable ever since, when we got home we stayed together and had an amazing relationship for 2 years. We had no arguments or bad times and we planned to get
Engaged and move in together. Then one day he changed, he got a new job, met new people and we split up because he
Stopped making time for me and constantly went out with friends. He said he still loves me and will come back for me once he has sorted himself out. But I don't want to be a doormat I want to get over him and forget him! But I cant, I think about him all the time and miss him , can't sleep or eat and have lost a tun of weight! Help!

amicon · May 5, 2011, 01:33 AM

Have no contact with him-and work actively on getting over him.

See friends and family,find a new hobby and fake it till you make it.

Time is a great healer.

Sumitkumar7266 · May 5, 2011, 04:12 AM

Time is the best heal.. Make new friends.. go with your friends.. Strictly NO contact.. No message or cal.. no mails.. If u really want to move on.. But if now also u are in hope that he will come back and will love u like before then u can't move.. Take a decision today what u want.. And if u have decided to ove then there should be no turning around.. May be he will come,then what is the guarantee that he won't change again and that will give u more pain.. Already two month is over so try to get out of this.. Take care of your food and regular routine.. Your life is more important for you,your family.. Keep this in mind.. No one will come to see u that you are eating or not.. you have to do that for yourself.. Take care.. Do lots of things so that you will feel tired in night and will not think about anything while sleeping.. All the best

talaniman · May 5, 2011, 11:00 AM

Read the stickies and see how others have dealt with a very hard break up. Yes break ups suck.

mmresd · May 6, 2011, 10:04 AM

You have lost some weight, that is good :). As far you thinking about him all the time, is going to be like that for a while. Just keep yourself busy, so that you don't have time to think about him, maybe take a class in something, join a gym, or concentrate more on work. Sooner than you think you will be back to normal and you will not miss him as much. Let time heal you wounds, and you will be fine, you WILL survive. Just give it time.

Good Luck,
Javi

PS: 2 months is not really that long of a time, for me it takes about half the duration of the relationship to FULLY heal, it takes about maybe 1/8-1/4 to be OK with it.

amormio609 · Jun 11, 2011, 05:00 PM

I'm sorry about your break up. I am also going through the same thing. Although we were not together very long, we had been friends for many years. He moved across country to be close to me (so that our relationship could work) and then all of a sudden he "copped out" and said that he cannot be in a relationship with me because he feels he cannot love me the way I deserved to be loved and that things were going too fast. I was devastated. And to be honest, I still continue to struggle with our break up. But time does heal all wounds. You will be fine. Just take this time to focus on yourself and your life goals. If it was meant to be, then it will be. Either way, one day he will realize what he lost and will suffer and miss you a hundred times more than you missed him.

And I will say that I do agree with the other comments. No contact is imperative. If he wants you, he will contact you. Remember, actions speaks louder than words. His actions will show the real person that he is.

Good luck,
Maria

kathlene simons · Jun 18, 2012, 08:51 AM

Girl, just move on I know you don't want to hear this but its th best if it was meant to be you guys will be together no matter what? I know you probley think he is the one but there of tons of guys out here. Time does fix things while you guys are on your break spend time doing stuff for you.. you deserve it being single is amazing yes you get lonely but you have no worries. I hope I help a little I am going threw the same thing and I always try to look for advice for my problems.. but been gettng better day by day it gets better.. and cry if you need to cry it will make you feel better. Its good to cry.