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wiley64 · Apr 30, 2011, 10:49 AM

Reason why women don't say goodbye

Wondergirl · Apr 30, 2011, 10:51 AM

Women say goodbye. Why don't you think they do?

amicon · Apr 30, 2011, 11:44 AM

Are you posting about someone who didn't say goodbye to you?

wiley64 · Apr 30, 2011, 12:07 PM

I've been in this relationship with a girl that I loved so much of 2 1/2 yrs and she loved me to, It was the best time of my life,I felted so alive.I got into a little trouble with the law [dui]and was in jail 11 months, she is also addicted to pain pills.I can't say I wasn't using them too. We were moving from house to house cause we were spending all are money on the pills but I always made sure she had want she needed,I took care of her.The reason that I did go to jail was that I didn't do want I was suppose to do,I broke probation cause I couldn't be away from her and didn't want her to be alone.She said she always be there for me.When I finally did go to jail she only visited once and wrote only a few times and it hurt me but she was still my world.When it was time to leave jail they told me I had a detainer on me for a scram bracelet that she had possion of. She told me she returned it so I can get out but I found out she never did.When I finally got out I tried to contact her on Facebook but she block me out and she has everything I ever worked for even my cloths.I lost everything. There is so much more to this story.The question is I never got I reason why and no closure.How can we have been so in love with each other and have it end this way. Please help if you can, I hope this makes some sense to you cause I can not fuction and feel so lonely without her.

amicon · Apr 30, 2011, 12:17 PM

I can't tell you why she did what she did-only she knows that.

Sadly,closure is something you have to find within yourself,as you heal from the break up and move on.

To address your addiction to the pills,have you got help with that?

Are you employed and do you have people to talk to?

I understand that you're hurting,I can only say that it does get better with time.

wiley64 · Apr 30, 2011, 12:38 PM

Im not using anymore but I do think about it cause so I can get through it and feel better.As far as employment I know I need that but I can't get her off my mind.I can't even get myself to do things.I do not have anybody to talk to that I trust or feel comfortabe with. Do you know of any kinds of places I can go to

Wondergirl · Apr 30, 2011, 12:43 PM

Where do you live? Are there counselors there?

amicon · Apr 30, 2011, 12:48 PM

Could you try your local church,a pastor?

wiley64 · Apr 30, 2011, 12:56 PM

Clarks summit, penna. Don't even know where to stert

Wondergirl · Apr 30, 2011, 01:05 PM

Call the church office at Trinity Lutheran.

amicon · Apr 30, 2011, 01:08 PM

Or Abington Counceling in Clark's Summit.

talaniman · May 1, 2011, 08:57 AM

reason why women don't say goodbye

Because they don't give a crap about you.

Sorry for what you have gone through and hope you find a way to pick up the pieces of your life and rebuild a better one for yourself.

Just don't quit on yourself.

mmresd · May 2, 2011, 11:13 AM

No one can know why a female does the things she does or why she does them in that way. You can't also expect for a female to stick around whenever you are gone for such a long time, especially if the place you have left for is jail/prison. Maybe she started wondering if her decision to e with you was the wrong one because of the bad decisions you have made in the past. Fix your life, and then go find a girl who wants to be with you. You will get through this, time will let you forget about her. Concentrate on staying out of trouble.

Good luck,
Javi