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    linda23 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 6, 2007, 02:30 PM
    Should I stay or go
    After trust issues and lack of communication between my boyfriend and I, and decided to go away from the relationship. We were together for two and half years, we got engaged and started begging our life together. Evething was going perfect until he started forgetting about me he'll come from work directly to the computer for about 3 hours and then take a shower and go to sleep. He felt secure of having me.
    Then I persude him to buy a house, and he did he couldn't afford it so his mom helped him
    Out, together with his brother who is the proble right now, when I was packing my staff to leave, my boyfrind got so upset he insulted not only my family but me and yelled at me
    Disrespected me.and his brother did too he call me a .
    Now I am back with him I was gone for a month and half, he call me and said please come back and we work thing out.When his brother saw me he got inside the house and start yelling at me to get out of here, and he said he would not let me marry his brother, that I was not good enough for his brother. He lives next door and I can hear that tells every single person he is talking to that I am I dumb girlfriend that I am don't worth anything
    I don't now what to do Please I need an advice should I stay or should I go?
    I am 22 years old and my boyfriend 34.
    Thank you
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    Feb 6, 2007, 02:39 PM
    No one knows your situation better than you. It depends what does your man say about this, does he call him out on it or just lets it be? You and him did not work out before and now that you are back you have to go through this I think this is the perfect time to see if he is the one. I would talk to him see if he listens and takes action if not go. If he does not do anything that means that he would let anyone disrespect and that is not good. Analyze your situation and do what you have to do.
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    Feb 6, 2007, 02:59 PM
    I think your too young to marry. And seem a little imature to marry.

    Quite frankly I think this gu yis too old for you. And hyou'll always have his b rother.

    Why don't you be singlr for a while and get away from this mess. DATE other guys closer to your age and see what's out there.

    No trust = no relatinship.
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    Feb 6, 2007, 03:29 PM
    From what you posted I would say just walk away and do not look back.
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    Feb 10, 2007, 06:38 PM
    Live him alone and find someone who deserves you.

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