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    Apr 14, 2011, 08:38 AM
    I lied to my boyfriend in the past and finally confessed
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    I have lied to my boyfriend he asked me about my previous relationship I have slept with 2 guys before him, and I told him it was just one, but he keep asking me that I should tell him otherwise if he finds out from someone else it would be too late, but when I told him I had 1 previous he flipped and said he can't believe I have done that so now I can't tell him I had 2 previous partners, I really want to tell him and come clean but I don't know how he is going react cause he keep asking me and I keep lying saying it was just one before, and then he says he don't like imagining me with other men, should I tell him or not?
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    Apr 14, 2011, 09:29 AM

    How old are you guys?

    He's going to have to know the truth eventually, you can't keep him in the dark forever. By keeping him in the dark, you're only building more tension between the two of you. Come clean, see how he reacts and move on. If he doesn't like it, then you two would break up anyway, but if he can get past it, then better to deal with it now rather than later.
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    Apr 14, 2011, 04:40 PM

    Tell him nothing. He acted an idiot after you told him about ONE guy so he will really act like a fool if you tell him about another one.

    You better think about hooking up with such an idiot, who is an insecure, immature fool also, because his feelings for you are based on his idea of what your chasity should be.

    He will never forgive you for not waiting for him to be your first.
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    Apr 14, 2011, 07:05 PM

    It's none of his business really... it's the past and that is what I would tell him. He is setting himself and you up for trouble. I'd question why he doesn't believe you and keeps being insistent about it?

    It is a form of manipulation that you shouldn't stand for. He treats you with distrust by asking, and if you did confess, you can be sure he would use it against you.
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    Apr 14, 2011, 07:09 PM

    He has no business asking you. What you did, and who you were with BEFORE you meet him has nothing to do with him.

    If he keeps asking you, it shows he has real issues with the relationship. He needs to stop asking or you may just need to find another boyfriend
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