Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    drowning857's Avatar
    drowning857 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #1

    Apr 10, 2011, 05:45 PM
    My girlfriend broke up with me after dating for 6 months, how do I get her back.
    My girlfriend broke up with me after dating for 6 months, we've been broken up for around 3 months and I tried talking to other girls. After going on my first date (after the break up) I knew something was wrong.so I started thinking... When I had told my girlfriend that I loved her I really meant it and she said the same thing back to me. We weren't a physical couple. Her parents didn't like me even though I get good grades and I'm highly respected at my school. Her friends didn't like me either because I was more on the popular end of our school and they aren't. But when I looked at her she smiled at me this way that I knew we were going to be together for a long time, then her grandpa pasted away and the day after the funeral she dumped me. I never got an explanation, but she acts hostile towards me now. I do know after my last date that she is the perfect person for me. I need her. PLease if you have any advice I will take it.
    amicon's Avatar
    amicon Posts: 6,066, Reputation: 1911
    Uber Member
     
    #2

    Apr 10, 2011, 10:21 PM

    Sorry,but you don't need her-you need to get over her.

    She dumped you and she's 'acting hostile'-take that major hint and start living your own life again.
    Sumitkumar7266's Avatar
    Sumitkumar7266 Posts: 91, Reputation: 48
    Junior Member
     
    #3

    Apr 10, 2011, 11:03 PM
    She moved on man.. You just try to forget her.. What you wants is not necessary that she too wants.. If she will feel the love for U.She will come but no one can force her to come in your life.. Just act calm.. Be in no contact with her.. That relation was not mature also.. It was only for 6 month.. Forger her and find someone new after some time.. Now be busy in your life and friends.. Take care.. All the best..
    BbJohnn78's Avatar
    BbJohnn78 Posts: 15, Reputation: 3
    New Member
     
    #4

    Apr 11, 2011, 10:46 AM
    Dude, leave her alone. Don't try anything at all. Don't contact her. Just live one day after another doing your thing. Studying, playing what ever sport you do and so on. Go out with your friends, make new friends, don't try to fall in love with the first girl that smile back at you, just have fun. Soon you'll see that you don't need her at all. If she contact you don't go emmotional, let her talk and don't try to push her in to coming back to you. If she dumped you have some self value for yourself. This is no a movie where there's a happy ending all the time. Trust me you'll feel great soon and in the future you'll find some one better than her, just let it happen.
    talaniman's Avatar
    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
    Expert
     
    #5

    Apr 12, 2011, 06:47 PM

    It took you 6 months to get stuck, so give yourself 6 months to get unstuck. Leave her alone and do your own thing until then.

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Ash123, My girlfriend (been dating for 10 months) just broke up with me [ 10 Answers ]

Ash123, My girlfriend (been dating for 10 months) just broke up with me saying that she is unhappy with herself and she needs to work on that. Now she says she loves me and cares for me but if she is not happy with herself she can be happy with me. She also says that there is no else in her life...

My girlfriend broke up with me. 5 months relationship, and I know that I love her. [ 13 Answers ]

I treated her like she was unimportant, an attempt to guide her to self reliance, and it backfired. She still tells me that she loves me, but she's always hanging out with all the guy friends that I always suspected had a thing for her that she would never tell me about. She still tells me she...

She broke up through text after 20 months.I want her back [ 1 Answers ]

I met this wonderful girl online about 20 months ago. We hit it off right away. She fell head over heels for me and I was her world. She loved me very very much and we had a great sex life... during the relationship we never fought, only bickered here and there. We took a great vacation...

I want to get back with my ex who broke up with me, she is dating other guys [ 1 Answers ]

So, my girlfriend and I were both married when we met. We both ended up divorcing our spouses, not because of our relationship with each other, but our own separate reasons. However, we did cheat on our spouses with one another. We started dating but certain things started happening and trust...

Should I try to start dating my ex who I broke up with 4 months ago? [ 1 Answers ]

I am 25 years old and my ex is 27. We met in the first year of law school and then he moved five hours away for school. Before he moved away, I got pregnant and we decided to have an abortion. After that, he got his acceptance into a very well-recognized law school. I wanted him to stay even though...


View more questions Search