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Bunnyrabbit2310 · Apr 10, 2011, 09:44 AM

So it all started in 6th grade I'm now in 9th grade. So this guy liked me and then I started liking him. We would flirt and stuff so I had a friend ask him out for me through a note but he didn't give a clear response but he asked what kind of candy I liked. So then we're in 7th grade my friend asked him out for me by surprise but he said sorry but no and then he gave me a hug. That whole year he had like 4 girlfriends which made me sad. I figured he didn't like me anymore but then we started texting and I asked him why he Didnt go out with me in 6th grade and he said because he was scared and then I asked him about the other time and he said he had a girlfriend. In another conversation he asked me if I still liked him and I said I thought he was cute and he said the same. So I was thinking OK he still likes me but then he would continue to go out with other girls. But sometimes he wouldn't talk to me for a long time. Then 8th grade we still texted a little bit. I didn't think he still liked me then and I was slowly getting over him. So now we're in 9th grade and we go to different schools but we still text sometimes. I am completely over him now and I thought he was over me. But then on valentines day he asked me out and I thought he was joking and I asked him if he was serious and he said yes and I said you still like me and he said yes and I told him I had moved on but I still wanted to be friends. I said don't be sad and he said OK. So then I asked him how his valentines day was and he said not very good and asked him why but he never texted back. I haven't talked to him since then. But I was pretty mad because when I asked him out he said no so why should I say yes when he decides to ask me out. I was really surprised that he still liked me. But I'm glad everything with him is over but just because I don't like him anymore doesn't mean I don't want to be friends. I was wondering if I should text him hey or something or just leave everything the way it is. Sorry it's so long I just wanted you to see the whole story.

adviceishere · Apr 10, 2011, 10:37 AM

I say leave it, don't bother texting him. He was happy enough to keep you close, knowing you liked him and now that you don't like him and he likes you, he doesn't even want to be friends now? Nah, I say leave it

Homegirl 50 · Apr 10, 2011, 10:43 AM

Leave him alone. If he really wanted to chat with you he would text you.
You're over him so let it be.

amicon · Apr 10, 2011, 10:47 AM

Put it to bed,find something better to do then wondering what he thinks.

You're over him,don't try to force a friendship that isn't there.

Bunnyrabbit2310 · Apr 10, 2011, 11:04 AM

What do I do if he texts me?

amicon · Apr 10, 2011, 11:10 AM

Ignore him.

Homegirl 50 · Apr 10, 2011, 12:42 PM

Maybe he only wants to be friends with you too. But if you don't want to chat with him, don't!

Cowgirl96 · Apr 11, 2011, 10:42 AM

Hey I font think you should text him fury but I he text you then yes text back! Think about it what if when you asked him out and he said no he did not fill that way and then would not text you back! It would hurt him. Also he might be hurt cause when you asked hi
Y his v-day was nit good he prob thought you where trying to be mean kind of sounds like it. I'm not saying you where but with his crushed hart and hurt ego really could come off like that.

Homegirl 50 · Apr 11, 2011, 10:48 AM

As long as both of you are on the same page (you are just friends) I see no problem. But if he is wanting to go out with you and you have moved on, leave him be.

Bunnyrabbit2310 · Apr 11, 2011, 01:03 PM

I didn't even realize it would come off like that