I want to be friends with my ex crush good or bad idea?
So it all started in 6th grade I'm now in 9th grade. So this guy liked me and then I started liking him. We would flirt and stuff so I had a friend ask him out for me through a note but he didn't give a clear response but he asked what kind of candy I liked. So then we're in 7th grade my friend asked him out for me by surprise but he said sorry but no and then he gave me a hug. That whole year he had like 4 girlfriends which made me sad. I figured he didn't like me anymore but then we started texting and I asked him why he Didnt go out with me in 6th grade and he said because he was scared and then I asked him about the other time and he said he had a girlfriend. In another conversation he asked me if I still liked him and I said I thought he was cute and he said the same. So I was thinking OK he still likes me but then he would continue to go out with other girls. But sometimes he wouldn't talk to me for a long time. Then 8th grade we still texted a little bit. I didn't think he still liked me then and I was slowly getting over him. So now we're in 9th grade and we go to different schools but we still text sometimes. I am completely over him now and I thought he was over me. But then on valentines day he asked me out and I thought he was joking and I asked him if he was serious and he said yes and I said you still like me and he said yes and I told him I had moved on but I still wanted to be friends. I said don't be sad and he said OK. So then I asked him how his valentines day was and he said not very good and asked him why but he never texted back. I haven't talked to him since then. But I was pretty mad because when I asked him out he said no so why should I say yes when he decides to ask me out. I was really surprised that he still liked me. But I'm glad everything with him is over but just because I don't like him anymore doesn't mean I don't want to be friends. I was wondering if I should text him hey or something or just leave everything the way it is. Sorry it's so long I just wanted you to see the whole story.