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    Apr 7, 2011, 12:04 PM
    I think I'm falling for my best friend. But I'm not sure whether he likes me, help?
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    So I'm a girl, and me and my best friend have been really good mates for about 3 years now. We talk all the time, in most of our classes we have together he sits in front of me and always turns round to talk to me (even though he knows he's going to get in trouble, and also his guy best mate sits next to me but he never really talks to him, mainly me) When we talk, we can talk about anything and everything, he knows a lot about me that I thought he would dislike me if he found out about but he didn't he was really supportive when I was going through a tough time. Every time we talk he always looks into my eyes and then sometimes just sits there looking at me and occaisionally touches my hand or hair, also the other day when I was walking home, I didn't want to go home so I told him I was going for a walk, he invited me to his house and we were on our own for a full 3 hours before his parents came home, he kept touching me and looking at me and said that it felt like we'd only been together 20 minutes not 3 hours. He walked me the whole way home which is rather far away. He looked as if he wanted to kiss me and he was about to but then some people from school walked down the street, I don't know whether he was actually going to or just going to give me a hug or something. So I just want to know whether He likes me? - I think I've really fallen for him bad, he feels like the one. But if he doesn't like me then there's no point in liking him.
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    Apr 7, 2011, 12:10 PM

    How old are you?
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    Apr 7, 2011, 12:17 PM
    18, We are both at college together.
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    Apr 7, 2011, 12:26 PM

    Why not ask him out? :O
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    Apr 7, 2011, 01:00 PM

    He is trying to seducing you. He likes you, so let him chase you but don't run so fast he can't catch you. Play it cool and see what he does with out you prompting him, or making it easy for him. Then you will know what his motives are about.
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    Apr 7, 2011, 10:33 PM
    He is feeling the same what you feels but this is not the solid foundation of a strong relationship.Spend some more time.. Let him propose you.. Go slowly.. It will be fun..
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    Apr 8, 2011, 09:20 AM
    Does my best friend like me?
    He has a girlfriend but she is a year younger than us. Also she lives in Ireland and he lives in England so they never see each other.
    But lately I've been hearing that he likes me; but I'm not sure if there correct.
    When we are together, he walks really slow
    He always makes a point of making sure that I'm all right and helping me if I'm not, he invited me round his house the other day out of the blue and he said to the rest of our group of friends that he just wanted it to be me and him. When we were at his house he was staring at me, like all the time and touching my hand and hair also he made sure he was sitting next to me all the night. In classes and stuff he always turns round to talk to me and stuf even when he knows he is going to get in trouble. Also when walking home with him today he asked what I was doing and I said I was going for a walk, and he said he'd come cause I was going on my own but he couldn't in the end and he said I promise I'll go sometime - just me and you..
    Everyone thinks he likes me but I think it's just normal best friend friendship kind of thing
    So does he like me or just being a good mate?
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    Apr 8, 2011, 12:01 PM

    So he has a girlfriend?

    That puts a different take on it.

    I think Talaniman is right,he is trying to seduce you,BUT,by coming on to you,he's not exactly a good boyfriend is he?

    I would be really,really careful...
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    Apr 8, 2011, 01:59 PM
    If today he's cheating on his girlfriend to be with you,tomorrow he may cheat on YOU to be with some other girl... be careful in taking your decision :)
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    Apr 8, 2011, 02:52 PM

    Harshness warning

    He has a girlfriend but she is a year younger than us.
    Amazing how merging a few posts bring more facts. The long distance girlfriend was not in your original post, but now we know, just a question.

    Why in the world would you allow a guy you know is willing to cheat behind a partners back, to put the moves on YOU?

    That's a disaster waiting to happen, and the dumbest thing I ever heard of!

    Don't allow yourself to be played for a complete FOOL!!
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    Apr 8, 2011, 11:34 PM

    And I would just like to add to Tals post, yes it will make him a CHEAT and it will make you the female equivalent!
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