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    Apr 2, 2011, 09:30 PM
    Can I Orgasm WITHOUT "helping myself"?
    [B]Ive only been with 2 sex partners, but the only way I was able to orgasm was Missionary with my feet on his shoulders his hands on my thighs and me fingering my ****. I have never been able to orgasm any other way during sex. During masturbation, the only way I can orgasm is basically the same thing: **** stimulation while using my other hand to "penetrate". I don't want to have to settle for that ONE position with a partner for the rest of my life... PLEASE HELP
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    Apr 2, 2011, 09:48 PM

    The large majority of women cannot orgasm only with penetration. Stimulation of external body parts is necessary.
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    Apr 3, 2011, 12:13 AM
    And that only worked 90% of the time. If I did it, and it took too long for me to org, I would get frustrated and just let him finish. Then feel very sexually frustrated and sometimes have to "finish" myself. It sucked because when I became frustrated, I would get frustrated with my partner for a certain amount of time, until it wore off. Even though I knew it wasn't Entirely his fault, I still didn't want him near me until I cooled off.
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