[B]Ive only been with 2 sex partners, but the only way I was able to orgasm was Missionary with my feet on his shoulders his hands on my thighs and me fingering my ****. I have never been able to orgasm any other way during sex. During masturbation, the only way I can orgasm is basically the same thing: **** stimulation while using my other hand to "penetrate". I don't want to have to settle for that ONE position with a partner for the rest of my life... PLEASE HELP

The large majority of women cannot orgasm only with penetration. Stimulation of external body parts is necessary.

And that only worked 90% of the time. If I did it, and it took too long for me to org, I would get frustrated and just let him finish. Then feel very sexually frustrated and sometimes have to "finish" myself. It sucked because when I became frustrated, I would get frustrated with my partner for a certain amount of time, until it wore off. Even though I knew it wasn't Entirely his fault, I still didn't want him near me until I cooled off.