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looniy · Mar 26, 2011, 01:02 AM

Hey I'm 17 and gay but the my best friend is only 15,
I've have told him I was gay but I didn't tell him I am still gayhow do I tell him?
Its really weird because the other day he said he was gay but not no more, and I asked him would he turn gay again for me and now he doesn't talk to me what do I do?

I like him more then ever before, I've known him since he was 2 1/2 years old

*** help me!,

Curlyben · Mar 26, 2011, 01:03 AM

Leave him well alone as he is a MINOR.
There could be SERIOUS legal ramifications if you do take this any further.

ChanceKippen · Mar 26, 2011, 03:19 PM

Well I say it is time to let go and move on to another guy that is gay and truly likes you

Fr_Chuck · Mar 26, 2011, 05:49 PM

First if you are gay, you are gay, you don't just "stop" being gay, so if he said he was and he is not now, it may been he considered it and changed his mind.

But he is 15 and is not available to be gay , straight or anything sexual.

adviceishere · Mar 27, 2011, 12:09 AM

OK first off, him telling you he is gay and then not gay just shows how very immature he is, you can't just change these things, and second off wouldn't you know that you can't just switch from straight to gay also? I'm not saying your not gay but if you think you can just switch these things on and off then you need to reevaluate yourself. Anyway what the other guys said is absolutely right, you need to focus on something else other than your friend or you WILL be in serious trouble.

Don't worry you will have plenty of crushes, some you will be able to pursue and some will be off limits.

looniy · Mar 27, 2011, 02:10 AM

Hey, its really hard to let go of him since I've known him forever,
He told me he likes me as well, we spook today about it,
But thanks

looniy · Mar 27, 2011, 02:23 AM

He is really mature for his age!
Yea I have had plenty of crushes, but every time I see him I relise how much I like him a how cute he actully is,
If we decide to take it further are we aloud to because we are compelety in love with each other?
And ill put this out there as well there is only 1 year apart, he turns 16 before I turn 18,

adviceishere · Mar 27, 2011, 02:39 AM

Nope, the law don't give a **** about being in love, the law is the law and its against it! Wait until he is 16 and if he is indeed gay and has these feelings for you then see what happens but please do not ruin your reputation by pursuing this, its wrong...