[inmoods]

I am 34 years male, I wants to know if my friend is gay or not. We work together at same place when I touch his hands in office he also touches. Even on bike when I put my hands on his waist and legs he does not oppose.I also have given him some sex downloaded movies clips along with some gay sex movie clips. He have watched them and shown no response.
How could I know he is a gay. I wants to have sex with him, how I can ask him.

[Fr_Chuck]

Most important thing, which shoe does he tie first??

Ok, seriously some men are touchy by nature, others need some more space. Ok, the bike thing, are you riding behind him on the bike, or do you go over and touch him while he is sitting on his bide, big difference.

But I have a very wild though, you could ask him.

Now with that said, it is not a good idea to date, have relations or other sexual issues with co workers, it nomally ends up a problem down the road, he may well be and be attracted but knows it is best not to fish in the company pond.

[Choux]

You have already made several "come-ons", and you weren't rejected.

How about putting his hand over your privates? When he doesn't remove it, ask him over to your apartment.


Good Luck!

[Super Allie]

Ask him if he likes Sex In The City and is he says

"Yes please" He's gay
"Yes" He's gay
"No" He's gay and in denial

;)

[mimi03]

Does he know you're gay? If not bring it up and see what happens but it seems like he may be into you from the little info you provided~

[bushg]

If it is just sex that you want and not a relationship. You need to make that clear if/when you approach him.