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tfp_ltd · Mar 22, 2011, 04:52 AM

I've been in a relationship with a newly divorced women for 7months now they hve a kid together and they were married for 12years separated for 2yrs he left her they still talk a lot and sometime she calls me his name by mistake she says she's moved on but I can't help to feel like she still misses him am I wasting my time?

JudyKayTee · Mar 22, 2011, 04:56 AM

Every relationship is different; every person is different. They have a "kid" together - it's good that they are in contact. They obviously have to make arrangements for that "kid."

As far as calling you by his name - it's probably just learned behavior after using his name for so many years. I wouldn't be offended. I'd bring it to her attention but end the conversation there.

The only way to know if she misses him, would prefer to be back with him, is to ask her.

tfp_ltd · Mar 22, 2011, 05:10 AM

I've asked her she says she doesn't but they'll be times she talks about him at length to me like I'm one of her girlfriends or something I mean what guy wants to hear about another guy from the girl he's dating ivetold her I don't like it but sometimes I think she does it without thinking about who she's talking to so it makes me wonder is she more focused on who's the story about or who she's having a conversation with?

JudyKayTee · Mar 22, 2011, 06:46 AM

This is another one of those "only you know" questions. If she talks about him more than makes you comfortable and you've told her about it and she keeps doing it, well, then I think I'd tell her the relationship is over and why.

The other thought is if her relationship with her "ex" was so wonderful, why is he her "ex."

When she starts talking about him, tell her you don't want to hear it. She'll either end the relationship or stop talking about him.