Do you mean this situation you posted on a thread that is over 3 years old?
If so, how old are you?

Originally Posted by
contradiction
this is an issue I have too sometimes.
I think the problem is we often expect men to be horny bastards 24/7 and then if they aren't we get annoyed and think it's our fault. I think jolienoire is right. the key is to giove them space. Make it like a game withold it from him. Yeah it might take ages but the powerplay is really fun when he comes begging for it. Yeah that is a scary thought because it sometime seems like they are never going to but he will eventually.