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    Nellybird Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 1, 2011, 04:46 PM
    Heartless
    okay so I like this guy and he is such a jerk , he likes to flirt,and tough other girls. But I like him anyway because he's so random, cute, rude but I like him because he can hold his own. He can stand up for himself, and be his own person plus he's really funny.when I look at him he's always looking up at me and sometimes I wonder if he's really lokking at me or something behind me. He called me ugly this one time wich by the way I'm not and he really hurt my feelings but he's like that to everyone except for some people and I wonder if that's a defense maganism or something so like yea I don't know what to do
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    Mar 1, 2011, 04:56 PM

    I'm thinking you don't do anything. Your writing and your way of thinking sound very young, so just hang around with groups of friends and don't worry about any one particular boy at this point.

    (It's called a defense mechanism, by the way, and that's not what he's doing.)
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    Mar 1, 2011, 06:24 PM

    Do nothing, what is there to do?
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    Mar 2, 2011, 06:30 AM
    Nelly, please read the rules of the forum. It is inappropriate to give someone a negative 'NO', for stating an opinion, which is why you are here in the first place. Take or leave any advice you are given, but not liking what you are given, is not a reason to give a negative rating.




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