[alotofquestion]

Okay. I like this guy. I'm 13 and he is 19. Is it okay to date? I need help. Okay because I know that it could end up as a disaster or it could work. He isn't quit as mature as other guys his age he acts like he is 16. Haha... but for real
I just need your help because rite now we are close friends and all I want to know is it illegal if we kiss because we arnt going have sex. Trust me because I cnt because of my medicatin and he knows this and he honestly don't care if we didn't. And he don't want to hurt me if we were to date and break up. But the thing is my grandparents don't want us to even hang out because they think it is to easy for friends to become lovers.
HELP. PLZZZ.

[justcurious55]

Well, since you used chat speak, a clear violation of site rules, the only part I could make sense of your question was if it's OK for you, a thirteen year old, to date a nineteen year old. No, it's not OK. Even being close friends is enough to raise eyebrows.

[Wondergirl]

the thing is my grandparents dnt want us to even hang out bc they think it is to easy for friends to become lovers.

There's your answer.

[Fr_Chuck]

Of course the main thing on a 19 year old boys mind is having sex, and he will tell you it is not till the kissing moves to more then after a while more and more.

A 13 year old has no business at all dating a 13 year old

[ScottGem]

Well it may not be illegal is is wrong for a 13 yr old to date period. Let alone a 19 yr old.

[sopheelerd]

I'm 15, and I just read your post, I'm sorry but I really think you have to leave it, for a start, he's too old for you basically. Some people have been a tad mean with their answers but they are telling the truth! You have to leave him alone, if your grandparents aren't happy then if I were you, I know they might be old and 'old fashioned' but they know what's best for you, so leave him to find girls his own age:/ x