[vanheart]

No contact. Period.

Being friends is out of the question.

There's no reason to give her that satisfaction.

Don't worry about your group. Just you.

[mrkerr7474]

Yeah no contact period. Defo. 2 days and going strong and its not really bothering me, which is good.

Yeah friends is out of the question and she doesn't deserve it. That will never happen anyway so it is all good!

Yeah its good that summer break is over and everyone away to respective places. No more parties and that for 8 weeks, so that's the main thing, I won't have to see her!

[vanheart]

Good for you, man.

Keep it up.

Your good friends will stand by you & respect what you are doing. Others are just others.

Glad to hear it.

We all go through this at one point. Some of us lots of times.

NC is the only remedy. Being the invisible man is very powerful.

[mrkerr7474]

Thanks for the support man and the advise. Much appreciated!

Exactly, true friends will stand by me and they have, so I am grateful for them.

Yeah it is unfortunate that most or all of us will go through it, but it is how we get through it will make is more confident and stronger people in the future.

NC is really the only way and it is working well. It has already started making my ex wonder where I am and its only being 2 days. Purely because the power is switching back to me and she is starting to lose control over the situation and she won't be able to use me no more!

[vanheart]

Sounds like you have your head screwed on straight.

NC isn't about her though. Hard not to think of it that way, sometimes. Sweet revenge.

She can wonder all she wants. She's no longer in your life.

Who cares?

Its all about you. Growing & being together with yourself.

I still wonder sometimes what my ex may think. Then my brain slaps itself.

If you need a hand during NC. Were here.

[mrkerr7474]

Well I didn't have my head screwed on but I've gone through a lot and done a lot of thinking, so I am all sorted now.

It isn't about her at all. It is about me and getting myself and my life sorted and going forward. Sometimes revenge would be good, but what is the point in that and where is that going to get me... No where, so there is no point thinking about that.

Haha you're right, I don't care if she is wondering what I am doing and all that. Not my fault. She pumped me out of her life, so her problem now, not mines.

Yeah thanks a lot vanheart, really appreciated it all

[vanheart]

No worries.