[bhill]

For the last month my girlfriend was acting a little weird around me, I asked her what was wrong and she promised me it was nothing. Two weeks ago she then told me that she wanted a break I asked her why and she said it was because she wanted her "space". I asked her if she stilled loved me and she said she was probably more in love with me now then she was in the beginning. She then told me she still wanted to be with me after the break. I gave her space that she wanted and then she suddenly broke up with me, I asked her why and she said it was because of some issues that she wasn't allowed to tell me. She says she still loves me so why if she acting so weird for?

[GlindaofOz]

How long were the two of you together? How old are both of you?

Any chance her parents weren't approving of the relationship?

[bhill]

But if it was her parents don't you think she would have been able to tell me?

[GlindaofOz]

Hmm I don't know. It might have been a cop out.

How old are both of you? How long was the relationship?

[bhill]

I'm 18 and she's 16 and we dated for 6 months I know we are still young but she meant a lot to me that's why I am so confused

[GlindaofOz]

I don't know. She is the only person who could give you the actual reason why. Sometimes we don't get the closure we want at the end of the relationship but we can't let it consume us. Try to accept that she had something going on with her that was a problem with her and it affected her relationship with you.

All you can do right now is try to pick up the pieces and try and move forward.

We have two amazing posts on here that really do help after a break up. Please take the time and read through them I think you feel better.

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[chuff]

It sounds like she's interested in someone else.

[mckenzie134]

She's interested in someone else. Don't worry you play it cool she will be back and in the mean time find another girl to be with,,

[bhill]

She swears to me its not someone else and all of my and her friends say its not either

[GlindaofOz]

It could be anything. She might be going through something and doesn't want you to know. She may have decided that she just wasn't interested in the relationship anymore. There are a million reasons. She is the only one who knows.

You will make yourself crazy trying to figure out why. The why doesn't matter the fact is what's done is done. Would knowing why make the break up any easier? Would you wake up tomorrow and feel great if you knew why? Would the break up not hurt if you knew why? My guess is no.

[bhill]

It wouldent make the situation better it would just maybe let me move on a little faster. Me and her are going to homecoming together so I kow she still loves and cares about me it would just make it a little less confusing to me to know why she wants this

[chuff]

she swears to me its not someone else and all of my and her freinds say its not either

Young, Mr. Hill, let me tell you something about girls that you should probably remember for the rest of your life. They lie. And of course her friends are going to say they don't know what's going on. It's not there problem so why would they get involved.

[friend4u178]

Chuff is right , don't go by what she says but rather by her ACTIONS.

[sfgiantsfan916]

I don't know man, I'm going through a whole different situation but honestly when the woman asks for space, you should respect that and do just that, its what she asked for and honestly there's nothing you can do to make her not want that. Insecurity is a real turn off to women, and honestly, you can't make a woman feel attraction for you, but you can make them feel unattracted to you.

[statictable]

How long have you known her? Has she now returned to school? Did you go to the same school? How did you meet? How far do you live from her? Do you know her friends? Does she know your friends? Does she drive a car? What do you do (school)? If you have time to respond it could help us with some more specific answers.