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    jacobndjosh Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 30, 2011, 12:36 PM
    What if he doesn't love me anymore?
    I am very much in love with my husband... we decided to separate about two months ago. I blame myself for it... I never showed him how much I really loved and appreciated him. He is now with someone else and doesn't want to give me another chance. I wish I could do something to make him change his mind... should I just let it go?
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    Jan 30, 2011, 03:47 PM
    Its hard to let go when you love someone but you just need to move on. I know its hard but its just got to be done
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    Jan 30, 2011, 04:00 PM

    First most likely it is not "all" your fault but very likely you may have been made to feel that way.

    But he has someone else, and has made their choice.

    It is time to get the divorce, go to no contact and move on with your life.
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    Feb 2, 2011, 02:24 PM
    "He is now with someone else and doesnt want to give me another chance".

    It is very tough to move on sometimes. But the above sentence says it all. It will be hard, but the "hurt" goes away.

    As Fr_Chuck said, it's not ALL your fault. Keep your head up and take this time to get know yourself. Be happy in your own skin and good things will just happen.

    Best of Luck.
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    Feb 13, 2011, 01:03 PM
    You guy are just separated for 2 months and he's already with someone else. It means to me that he already had plan ahead of the time. It's hard to let it go when you love someone deeply but you need to move on. I'm in similar situation with you so I did understand how you feel. If you have kids, try to focus taking care of your kids and participate in other activities in order to get him off your mind.
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