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shehe · Jan 23, 2011, 09:28 PM

We want to give it a go. But we feel bit filthy putting our mouth inside there. Do you have any suggestion how can we give each other oral without actually directly putting our mouth there? We were told there are some other ways to do it.

excon · Jan 23, 2011, 09:38 PM

Hello s:

Nahhh. You got to dive right in... I'd rent a couple porn videos to find out if it's for you.

excon

Cat1864 · Jan 23, 2011, 09:47 PM

Due to posting restrictions on the Adult Sexuality Board, would you please state your ages?

Fr_Chuck · Jan 23, 2011, 10:11 PM

Yes, by their commit I would have to guess JR HIGH or from a seriously religious background.

shehe · Jan 24, 2011, 04:31 PM

Yes sure we are both in our 50,s. Bit late learner.

excon · Jan 24, 2011, 04:35 PM

Hello again, s:

50's huh? Wow. I don't know. Oral sex isn't really fringe any more, if it ever was.. If you haven't tried by now, maybe it's not for you. Especially since you think it's filthy. At your age, you'll NEVER get past that.

excon

Enigma1999 · Jan 24, 2011, 06:15 PM

Originally Posted by shehe

we want to give it a go. But we feel bit filthy putting our mouth inside there. Do you have any suggestion how can we give each other oral without actually directly putting our mouth there? We were told there are some other ways to do it.

I don't think that there is anything "filthy" about oral on the person you love and trust.

That's just me...

Not to mention, you will be missing out.

However,If you must go that route, then have him line it with plastic wrap. LOL

smoothy · Jan 25, 2011, 07:52 AM

You can't go down the freeway... without actually getting on the road.

Synnen · Jan 25, 2011, 08:51 AM

You know, the OP says "partner", and not boyfriend or husband.

Just for clarification (and I apologize if I am wrong)--OP, are you both female?

martinizing2 · Jan 25, 2011, 09:14 AM

When I first ventured into oral sex it was with trepidation and great fear of the unknown .

I thought it may turn out to be a nasty and unsavory thing, but since I had to prove my manhood , and most of my friends at the time had not ventured there I needed to be the one to tell the tale.

The tale turned into an encyclopedia.
When I experienced the level of pleasure and passion this provided to my partners I knew I hit the right spot.

The thoughts of it being dirty, and nasty lasted for upwards of three minutes. Then it was full throttle damn the torpedoes!

All that's required is common good hygiene , and some pointers from a porno or two to get the ball rolling.

Girl on girl is the most instructional I think,
When you own the equipment you know more of how to use it to it's full potential.

I wish you well.

JudyKayTee · Jan 25, 2011, 07:48 PM

I'm confused by the "putting our mouth INSIDE there" comment.

jenniepepsi · Jan 25, 2011, 07:55 PM

Given that the OPs screenname is SheHe, and 'inside there' was mentioned, I am going to assume, that she is a girl, and her partner is a girl. As you can't really put your mouth INSIDE a penis

If you both want to try, go for it. You will never know if you will like it if you don't try. Honestly in my own opinion, oral sex is the BEST part of sex. But everyone is different and I have met those who hate it.

Its all about what you and your partner want, not what everyone else things you 'should' do.

shehe · Jan 27, 2011, 06:20 PM

Sorry for confusion, No I am not lesbian. I am talking about me and my husband.

shehe · Jan 27, 2011, 06:22 PM

I have already said sorry for confusing question. This is about me and my husband, Female and male couple.

JudyKayTee · Jan 28, 2011, 07:50 AM

Then I don't understand why both of you are reluctant to put your mouth "into" there -

Otherwise you've received good advice.

My only other thought about this would be that I think sex should be more spontaneous and less planned out - but maybe that's just me.

Cat1864 · Jan 28, 2011, 09:27 AM

You don't have to put your mouth or tongue into any place you aren't comfortable. Why not start at a place you are and work your way to the area that you aren't. Stop when the feeling of being uncomfortable grows too strong.

smoothy · Jan 28, 2011, 09:46 AM

Usually if one gets rid of the shrubery it will be more pleasant...

Who likes sucking on a wig after all...

Enigma1999 · Jan 28, 2011, 11:31 AM

Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Then I don't understand why both of you are reluctant to put your mouth "into" there -

Otherwise you've received good advice.

My only other thought about this would be that I think sex should be more spontaneous and less planned out - but maybe that's just me.

I absolutely agree with this, I had to spread the rep.

I too believe that sex should more spontaneous. After all what's the fun in just planning it out? Nothing really.

OP, you guys need to feel comfortable with this. If you're not... then don't do it.

I will tell you this though, if not, then you're missing out.

martinizing2 · Jan 28, 2011, 11:32 AM

Smoothy s idea of trimming is a good one and it adds a bit of change (if it is a new thing) that can always spice things up a bit.

martinizing2 · Jan 28, 2011, 11:51 AM

I will add a little planning may not be a bad thing.
A bottle of wine and a candle lite shower for a little prep may help set the mood for some experimentation.

It may be hard to overcome preconceptions regarding this and may be best approached a step at a slow easy pace.

All in all I think you will be happy with the rewards this can bring.

I wish you well