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TellmeyouLoveme · Jan 10, 2011, 08:39 PM

Ok so there's this guy I have liked for two years, and last year, we were pretty good friends, he accidentally found out I liked him. For a couple weeks nothing changed. My good friend told him that I knew all this stuff about him, like his phone number, where he lives, and his middle name, dogs name, just random stuff like that, and I guess he got freaked out, and starting gradually hating me. First, it was pretty subtle like ignoring me and saying some stuff behind my back like "shes weird" but then I got a little worse like asking our english teacher if he could move seats so he didn't have to sit by me. That was the worst of last year. Then, over summer vacation, we never really talked. But we got back to school, and whenever he saw me he'd yell "STALKER! STALKER!! FREAK!!!!" constantly. IN MY FACE. And then he'd trip me, unzip my backpack so my stuff all fell out, and spread rumors. He always tells his friends I'm a "freak, crazy b*tch, reatard, dipsh*t, fatty (even though im definitley NOT fat) creeper, no one likes me, ill die alone," just stupid stuff like that.His friends think I'm cool, and if they ever go near me/talk to me/ look at me/ say hi to me, he yells "dont look at the STALKER! no one likes the STALKER!" he sent me an essay about his hatred for me. And essay, with 8 paragraphs and it was a text 10 pages long. His TEACHERS call me stalkers. He constantly calls me names and crap, but don't say he's a jerk, because he's nice, funny, sweet, sporty, handsome, and he just doesn't like people to mess with his life. Which, apparently, I did. Please don't say I should get over him, because I tried, and I cant. I really do love him. And I'm not some creep in elemntary/middle school. I'm a senior in high school, please help! :(

Enigma1999 · Jan 10, 2011, 09:05 PM

Ok. You got to ask us YOUR question, so now I get to ask you MY question.

Why in the world are you attracted to this idiot??

TellmeyouLoveme · Jan 10, 2011, 09:22 PM

Because I was friends with him ,and I know how he is when he's nice. He's not a generally mean guy, mostly just to me.

Enigma1999 · Jan 10, 2011, 09:28 PM

In any case, I would STOP worring about him and move on.

He sounds like a waste of time... Find another who will respect you.

JilleyWilly · Jan 19, 2011, 06:39 PM

Get over him,
But if you can't,
Treat it like a joke
If he yells "stalker" laugh and say "oh yeah, i wanna show you some pics i got while you were sleeping" or "I'm not stalking you, your bushes are just comfy" something like that,
But from what you said, he's an obnoxious jerk

Cat1864 · Jan 20, 2011, 10:34 AM

IF you haven't done anything, then his behavior is actually very serious if he is tripping you and yelling in your face. Not to mention sending a letter/essay/text saying how much he hates you. He has teachers calling you a stalker and you want to find a way to get this person to like you? He is not a 'nice guy'. Some might call his behavior 'bullying'.

It concerns me that you defend his behavior and still want to be not only friends with him but possibly more. I think you need to talk to a school counselor about why you are accepting this treatment and apparently wanting more. His behavior is not a substitute for caring. It is not 'proof' that he knows you're alive. It does not show that he must be denying his real feelings if he is this mean or whatever rationalization you are giving yourself.

You need to stay away from him. While you are busy mooning over a male who seems to be trying to get attention at your expense, you may be missing a great guy who could win your heart over with a smile and who would enjoy spending time getting to know you.

Take care of yourself. You deserve a lot better than you have been getting.

TellmeyouLoveme · Jan 25, 2011, 09:21 PM

He's not a waste of time. He respected me last year. But he just does it now for a reaction.

TellmeyouLoveme · Jan 25, 2011, 09:22 PM

Haha, I'll try that :)
He's really not an obnoxious jerk, he's a really nice guy. Not to me, but he was last year.

TellmeyouLoveme · Jan 25, 2011, 09:23 PM

Thanks for the help and I have really taken your advice into consideration. I've stayed as far away from him as possible and I don't talk to him or his friends anymore.

darthvader1627 · Aug 22, 2011, 05:56 AM

That happened to me once. But he didn't call me stalker LOL that's a really hard situation.
Hmmm... try listening to songs of three days grace in you tube and show and prove to him that he needs you in his ****** life and then maybe he'll start talking to you again.