[Tacloban]

I had a u.s boyfriend. We are dating within 6 months. He met my whole family. He is my first boyfriend ever at my 25 of age.
Then now, the problem exists when I forgot to inform my boyfriend that I had a new email add. He thought that I used that to chat to another guy. He called me a slut even he knows he was my first man who I had sex. He told me he wants break up because according him I'm liar and cheater. What should I do? *** help me? Only new email add, he act that way, he breaking me up. Is my boyfriend still love me? Should I begg to get him back? I really love my boyfriend.
Right now, I email him, he will response but not the way he used to. He still mad at me even I give my password already. He still called me a slut. *** help me. Thanks. I want to reconciled our friendship.

[Devorameira]

I know you don't want to hear this, but your boyfriend is a disrespectful controlling jerk. Don't allow him to talk to you that way... you deserve love and respect.

Why would you even want to stay with someone who accuses you of things you didn't do and who calls you names?

Don't lower yourself to begging him to come back. That will only show him that he has total control over you and gains you nothing.

In my opinion the best thing you can do for yourself is to kick his butt to the curb!

[Jake2008]

What you should have learned in the past six months during this relationship, is that he is an insecure, angry, jealous, and controlling man.

What he has done over the email address and resulting comments, accusations, and degrading name calling, is prove to you what you should have picked up on at sometime during the getting to know you phase, of the past six months.

If you choose to 'win' him back, be prepared to live your life under his terms, and be ready and aware that you can expect more of the same behaviour.

[Cat1864]

Since you call him 'a u.s. boyfriend', I get the impression that you live in another country. How did you meet him? Has he been looking for a girlfriend/wife who has been raised in a 'traditional' way to be a supposedly more subservient mate? He wouldn't be the first male to look for a woman who will do everything he wants the way he wants and goes to extremes to find one. Somehow, I think he may have chosen incorrectly. I think you have a lot more going for you than to be his servant with sexual obligations thrown in.

First, change your password. He does not need it and does not deserve the privilege of being given access to your personal correspondence. You should not feel like you have to give up your privacy to make amends for his being in the wrong.

Second, delete all contact with him. He is already showing signs of being abusive and controlling. You do not deserve to be treated as less than a person no matter what you do or he thinks you have done. He is trying to make you feel like there is no one else who would have you or that he is so special you owe everything to him. He isn't special. You deserve better.

Third, examine why you 'forgot' to give him your new email address. I think on a subconscious level you may have already been looking for a way out of they relationship. Be honest with yourself.

[magic_pencil]

He could be saying this out of guilt, it's a possabilty he is cheating on u