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ilikepie97 · Dec 31, 2010, 12:42 PM

Well I'm a girl and I'm bi and I'm really attracted to my best friend and I was wondering if that's normal for a bisexual thanks for your help :)

Cat1864 · Dec 31, 2010, 01:07 PM

How old are you?

ilikepie97 · Dec 31, 2010, 01:08 PM

13

Enigma1999 · Dec 31, 2010, 01:16 PM

Sweetie, you're a little too young for us to give you advice.

If you would have read the rules, you would have seen that you have to be 18 or older to post in the adult sexuality.

All I can tell you is just to be yourself. There really is no right or wrong in your feelings.

Alty · Dec 31, 2010, 01:16 PM

I'm sorry, but we can't answer your question.

This is the adult sexuality forum. You must be an adult (over 18) in order to ask and receive answers in this forum.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ality-u-b.html

ilikepie97 · Dec 31, 2010, 01:20 PM

It didn't say that when I wrote this but I'm sorry

Alty · Dec 31, 2010, 01:29 PM

it didn't say that when I wrote this but I'm sorry

No need to be sorry. :)

There are other forums you can post under where we can answer your questions, especially since your question isn't really about sex, but attraction.

But, we cannot answer your questions here.

I'll ask the mods to move your question.

Most times when you post, many forums will have what are called stickies at the top. It's always a good idea to read those stickies to make sure that you're not only posting in the right forum, but know the rules of that forum. Also, many times there are stickies that will answer the question you're asking.

It's a learning process. You'll get there. :)

ilikepie97 · Dec 31, 2010, 02:34 PM

Thanks :)

Alty · Dec 31, 2010, 02:40 PM

Since this has been moved to the teen forum, I'll give you an answer. :)

You can't help attraction. It really has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

So, is it normal to be attracted to a friend? Yes.

Is it something you should pursue? At your age, I'd say no.

Enigma1999 · Dec 31, 2010, 03:12 PM

And I agree with Alty. I had to spread the rep.

Wondergirl · Dec 31, 2010, 03:22 PM

Now and throughout your life, you are going to be attracted to many people of either gender -- your Uncle Bob, your friend Suzy, your best friend's father, your choir director, your math teacher. As Alty said, this attraction is healthy and normal and to be expected. Acting on it sexually is an entirely different matter, and right now, you are too young to be thinking about acting on sexual feelings. Right now, your job is to get to know people -- LOTS of people your age and older, so you can learn who they are and how they act/react.